{"podcast":{"title":"Private Parts Unknown: Sex & Love Around the World","slug":"private-parts-unknown-sex-love-around-the-world-220056","podcast_index_feed_id":220056,"rss_url":"https://feeds.megaphone.fm/EDGY5280373877","website_url":"https://www.privatepartsunknown.com/","image_url":"https://megaphone.imgix.net/podcasts/48beae36-e202-11ec-b993-af2d41129c78/image/f2b4bee297d2cd40b1cd35ded3589514.png?ixlib=rails-4.3.1&max-w=3000&max-h=3000&fit=crop&auto=format,compress","author":"Courtney Kocak","episode_count":360,"summary":"Private Parts Unknown (FKA Reality Bytes) is a Bourdain-style podcast exploring sex, love, relationships, gender, and seductive subcultures around the world. Join host Courtney Kocak and expert guests for hilarious, sex-positive conversations — destigmatizing everything from abortion to Ashley Madison, polyamory to PMDD, sex work to Shibari, and more. Travel series include Helsinki, Finland; Mexico City, Mexico; and Tokyo, Japan. Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of Pleasure Podcasts. For network details, contact cameron@pleasurepodcasts.com.","last_synced_at":"2026-07-16T02:17:10.360459+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/private-parts-unknown-sex-love-around-the-world-220056"},"episode":{"title":"Stop Waiting for an Apology: How to Forgive After a Breakup (or Any Hurt) & Finally Move On with Dr. Dravon James","slug":"stop-waiting-for-an-apology-how-to-forgive-after-a-breakup-or-any-hurt-finally-move-on-with-dr-dravon-james","published_at":"2026-03-25T12:30:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/private-parts-unknown-sex-love-around-the-world-220056/stop-waiting-for-an-apology-how-to-forgive-after-a-breakup-or-any-hurt-finally-move-on-with-dr-dravon-james","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/private-parts-unknown-sex-love-around-the-world-220056","url":"https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/traffic.megaphone.fm/EDGY4139161965.mp3?updated=1774400744","audio_url":"https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/traffic.megaphone.fm/EDGY4139161965.mp3?updated=1774400744","summary":"Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with promo code 10PRIVATE at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠fleshlight.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. For the 252nd episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes life coach, transformation specialist, and author Dr. Dravon James. Dr. Dravon is the author of Forgiveness: The Pathway to Happiness⁠, and her approach reframes forgiveness as an act of self-love rather than as something we do for those who hurt us. In this episode, we talk about why waiting for an apology keeps you stuck, how unresolved resentment shows up in your relationships, and practical tools for starting a forgiveness practice—especially after a breakup, which is when I’ve needed it most. We also get into the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation, and how to set boundaries without holding on to anger. For more from today's guest, Dr. Dravon James: Buy Dr. James's book Forgiveness: The Pathway to Happiness Follow Dr. Dravon James on Instagram @drdravonjames⁠ Check out Dr. James's website drdravonjames.com Get your copy of Girl Gone Wild from ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Bookshop.org⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Preorder 10 copies of Girl Gone Wild to join The Confessional—a live memoir writing residency during the launch of Girl Gone Wild. For more details, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠www.courtneykocak.com/teaching⁠⁠⁠⁠. Psst, Courtney has an 0nIyFan$, which is a horny way to support the show: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/cocopeepshow⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: VB Health offers doctor-formulated sexual health supplements designed to elevate your sex life. Their lineup i…","meta_description":"Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with promo code 10PRIVATE at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠fleshlight.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2291,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/private-parts-unknown-sex-love-around-the-world-220056/episodes/stop-waiting-for-an-apology-how-to-forgive-after-a-breakup-or-any-hurt-finally-move-on-with-dr-dravon-james/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/private-parts-unknown-sex-love-around-the-world-220056/stop-waiting-for-an-apology-how-to-forgive-after-a-breakup-or-any-hurt-finally-move-on-with-dr-dravon-james.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}