{"podcast":{"title":"Play Therapy Parenting: Real Parenting Questions Answered by a Child Therapist","slug":"play-therapy-parenting-real-parenting-questions-answered-by-a-child-therapist-845974","podcast_index_feed_id":845974,"rss_url":"https://thekidcounselor.libsyn.com/rss","website_url":"https://www.playtherapyparenting.com/","image_url":"https://static.libsyn.com/p/assets/3/f/7/e/3f7ea3faa10dfb58d959afa2a1bf1c87/Play_Therapy_Parenting_Podcast_Coverart.jpg","author":"Brenna Hicks","episode_count":228,"summary":"Parenting can be confusing—especially when you're dealing with tantrums, anxiety, aggression, emotional outbursts, sibling conflict, ADHD concerns, school struggles, or behavior that just doesn't make sense. On the Play Therapy Parenting Podcast, child therapist Dr. Brenna Hicks answers real parenting questions and helps you understand what's really going on beneath your child's behavior. Each episode provides practical insight into emotions, development, behavior, and the parent-child relationship so you can respond with greater confidence and connection. No gimmicks. No parenting hacks. No Ads! Just straightforward guidance from over two decades of working with children and families.","last_synced_at":"2026-06-26T00:18:03.524200+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/play-therapy-parenting-real-parenting-questions-answered-by-a-child-therapist-845974"},"episode":{"title":"S3E37 - The Pendulum Swing: Why Kids Go to Extremes Before They Find Balance","slug":"s3e37-the-pendulum-swing-why-kids-go-to-extremes-before-they-find-balance","published_at":"2026-04-07T12:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/play-therapy-parenting-real-parenting-questions-answered-by-a-child-therapist-845974/s3e37-the-pendulum-swing-why-kids-go-to-extremes-before-they-find-balance","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/play-therapy-parenting-real-parenting-questions-answered-by-a-child-therapist-845974","url":"https://thekidcounselor.libsyn.com/s3e37-the-pendulum-swing-why-kids-go-to-extremes-before-they-find-balance","audio_url":"https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/thekidcounselor/PlayTherapyParenting_3_37_Pendulum.mp3?dest-id=689050","summary":"In this episode, I explain the concept of the pendulum swing and why it is such an important picture for understanding what happens in child-centered play therapy. When children have felt powerless in everyday life, the permissive playroom gives them a chance to experience the opposite. They are allowed to take charge, make decisions, and even swing all the way into dictatorial power. That can look extreme, but it is actually part of the healing process. Children are testing what power feels like because they have spent so much of life feeling like they had none. Over time, they discover that neither extreme feels good. Having no power feels awful, but having all the power feels awful too. Through the freedom of the playroom and the safety of the therapeutic relationship, children learn that balance is what actually feels right. This is how regulation develops. They move from black-and-white extremes toward a healthy middle, and that process helps parents understand why children may seem to \"ping pong\" for a while before they settle. Ask Me Questions: Call ‪(813) 812-5525‬, or email: brenna@thekidcounselor.com My Book: Device Detox: A Parent's Guide To Reducing Usage, Preventing Tantrums, And Raising Happier Kids - https://a.co/d/bThnKH9 Podcast HQ: https://www.playtherapyparenting.com/ My Newsletter Signup: https://www.playtherapyparenting.com/newsletter/ My Podcast Partner, Gabb Wireless: https://www.playtherapyparenting.com/gabb/ Common References: Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Landreth, G.L., & Bratton, S.C. (2019). Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT): An Evidence-Based 10-Session Filial Therapy Model (2nd ed.). Routledge.","meta_description":"In this episode, I explain the concept of the pendulum swing and why it is such an important picture for understanding what happens in child-centered play…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":570,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/play-therapy-parenting-real-parenting-questions-answered-by-a-child-therapist-845974/episodes/s3e37-the-pendulum-swing-why-kids-go-to-extremes-before-they-find-balance/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/play-therapy-parenting-real-parenting-questions-answered-by-a-child-therapist-845974/s3e37-the-pendulum-swing-why-kids-go-to-extremes-before-they-find-balance.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}