{"podcast":{"title":"Perfect Prey: A Coercive Control Podcast","slug":"perfect-prey-a-coercive-control-podcast-6610448","podcast_index_feed_id":6610448,"rss_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/e5f69b64/podcast/rss","website_url":"https://coercivecontrolconsulting.com/","image_url":"https://d3t3ozftmdmh3i.cloudfront.net/staging/podcast_uploaded_nologo/38481441/38481441-1776984962087-b4efb9016d5b5.jpg","author":"Dr. Christine Marie Cocchiola","episode_count":58,"summary":"Dr. Christine Marie Cocchiola, DSW, LCSW is a Coercive Control Educator, Researcher, & Survivor. She has been an advocate since the age of 19, passionate about protecting children from abuse. Yet, even as a therapist, she didn't see the signs in her own relationship. How do we, as protective parents, support our children harmed by the coercive controller (aka Narcissistic Abuser)? Dr. Cocchiola's expertise provides the framework for supporting protective parents as they navigate parenting children harmed by the coercive controller. Protective parents can show their children a path to freedom.","last_synced_at":"2026-07-04T04:20:44.407146+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/perfect-prey-a-coercive-control-podcast-6610448"},"episode":{"title":"Why Survivors Must Be Heard to Heal with Dr. Judith Lewis Herman","slug":"why-survivors-must-be-heard-to-heal-with-dr-judith-lewis-herman","published_at":"2026-05-08T15:45:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/perfect-prey-a-coercive-control-podcast-6610448/why-survivors-must-be-heard-to-heal-with-dr-judith-lewis-herman","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/perfect-prey-a-coercive-control-podcast-6610448","url":"https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/perfectpreypodcast/episodes/Why-Survivors-Must-Be-Heard-to-Heal-with-Dr--Judith-Lewis-Herman-e3j1tqk","audio_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/e5f69b64/podcast/play/119649556/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-4-7%2Fc04c735b-b4bf-e12d-2693-8e80f349f914.mp3","summary":"In this episode of Perfect Prey , I’m honored to be joined by Judith Herman , one of the world’s foremost pioneers in trauma research and recovery. Dr. Herman is the author of the groundbreaking books Father-Daughter Incest , Trauma and Recovery , and Truth and Repair —works that fundamentally changed how we understand trauma, complex trauma, institutional betrayal, and survivor healing. Together, we discuss the origins of trauma theory, the women’s movement that brought survivor voices into public consciousness, the devastating lifelong impact of childhood abuse and coercive control, and why children living in unsafe family systems are so deeply affected—even when the abuse is not overtly physical. We also explore the ACEs study, attachment, institutional failures, protective parenting, intergenerational trauma, and the critical role of safe relationships in healing. This is an essential conversation for survivors, clinicians, advocates, educators, attorneys, judges, and anyone seeking a deeper understanding of trauma and recovery. What we cover The origins of trauma and complex trauma theory How the women’s movement changed the understanding of abuse Dr. Herman’s groundbreaking work on incest and child sexual abuse The lifelong mental and physical health impacts of childhood trauma The ACEs study and adverse childhood experiences Coercive control, family violence, and child development Isolation as a tactic of abuse and coercive control Why children exposed to family violence are profoundly harmed Protective factors that help children heal from trauma Attachment, belonging, and the importance of safe relationships Institutional betrayal and why survivors must be heard Protective parenting and rebuilding connection with children Why listen If you are a survivor, prote…","meta_description":"In this episode of Perfect Prey , I’m honored to be joined by Judith Herman , one of the world’s foremost pioneers in trauma research and recovery. Dr. He…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2833,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/perfect-prey-a-coercive-control-podcast-6610448/episodes/why-survivors-must-be-heard-to-heal-with-dr-judith-lewis-herman/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/perfect-prey-a-coercive-control-podcast-6610448/why-survivors-must-be-heard-to-heal-with-dr-judith-lewis-herman.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}