{"podcast":{"title":"Perfect Prey: A Coercive Control Podcast","slug":"perfect-prey-a-coercive-control-podcast-6610448","podcast_index_feed_id":6610448,"rss_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/e5f69b64/podcast/rss","website_url":"https://coercivecontrolconsulting.com/","image_url":"https://d3t3ozftmdmh3i.cloudfront.net/staging/podcast_uploaded_nologo/38481441/38481441-1776984962087-b4efb9016d5b5.jpg","author":"Dr. Christine Marie Cocchiola","episode_count":58,"summary":"Dr. Christine Marie Cocchiola, DSW, LCSW is a Coercive Control Educator, Researcher, & Survivor. She has been an advocate since the age of 19, passionate about protecting children from abuse. Yet, even as a therapist, she didn't see the signs in her own relationship. How do we, as protective parents, support our children harmed by the coercive controller (aka Narcissistic Abuser)? Dr. Cocchiola's expertise provides the framework for supporting protective parents as they navigate parenting children harmed by the coercive controller. Protective parents can show their children a path to freedom.","last_synced_at":"2026-07-04T04:20:44.407146+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/perfect-prey-a-coercive-control-podcast-6610448"},"episode":{"title":"The Weaponization of Children in Coercive Control","slug":"the-weaponization-of-children-in-coercive-control","published_at":"2026-02-20T17:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/perfect-prey-a-coercive-control-podcast-6610448/the-weaponization-of-children-in-coercive-control","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/perfect-prey-a-coercive-control-podcast-6610448","url":"https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/perfectpreypodcast/episodes/The-Weaponization-of-Children-in-Coercive-Control-e3fbrk4","audio_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/e5f69b64/podcast/play/115780676/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-1-20%2F8483de64-fe46-0cab-96f6-c365d7c37d11.mp3","summary":"Description In this solo episode of Perfect Prey , I explore one of the most heartbreaking dynamics of coercive control: the weaponization of children. Children rely on their parents for safety, stability, and unconditional love. But when a predatory parent is operating within the family system, attachment can become fractured. Instead of growing up with secure connection, children are often indoctrinated into false narratives, exposed to subtle undermining, and pulled into loyalty binds they cannot cognitively or emotionally process. I explain how coercive control is the underpinning of all forms of abuse — psychological, legal, financial, physical, and emotional — and how, when an abuser can no longer control their partner, they often shift to controlling through the child. We’ll talk about: How attachment is formed — and how it can be fractured Why children may come home dysregulated, angry, or oppositional How subtle undermining and false narratives are planted The difference between alienation rhetoric and attachment fracture Why predatory parents rely on retaliation and loyalty conflicts How protective parents can create “roadblocks” to manipulation What it means to respond instead of react — even when you are traumatized This episode is especially for protective parents navigating post-separation abuse and family court dynamics. The reality is painful: children are often placed in impossible positions, forced into emotional roles they should never have to carry. But there are ways to respond differently. If you are watching your child struggle, unravel, or lash out after time with the other parent, this episode will help you understand what may be happening beneath the surface — and how to stay grounded in your role as the secure base. Protective parents are doi…","meta_description":"Description In this solo episode of Perfect Prey , I explore one of the most heartbreaking dynamics of coercive control: the weaponization of children. Ch…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":1569,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/perfect-prey-a-coercive-control-podcast-6610448/episodes/the-weaponization-of-children-in-coercive-control/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/perfect-prey-a-coercive-control-podcast-6610448/the-weaponization-of-children-in-coercive-control.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}