{"podcast":{"title":"Perfect Prey: A Coercive Control Podcast","slug":"perfect-prey-a-coercive-control-podcast-6610448","podcast_index_feed_id":6610448,"rss_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/e5f69b64/podcast/rss","website_url":"https://coercivecontrolconsulting.com/","image_url":"https://d3t3ozftmdmh3i.cloudfront.net/staging/podcast_uploaded_nologo/38481441/38481441-1776984962087-b4efb9016d5b5.jpg","author":"Dr. Christine Marie Cocchiola","episode_count":58,"summary":"Dr. Christine Marie Cocchiola, DSW, LCSW is a Coercive Control Educator, Researcher, & Survivor. She has been an advocate since the age of 19, passionate about protecting children from abuse. Yet, even as a therapist, she didn't see the signs in her own relationship. How do we, as protective parents, support our children harmed by the coercive controller (aka Narcissistic Abuser)? Dr. Cocchiola's expertise provides the framework for supporting protective parents as they navigate parenting children harmed by the coercive controller. Protective parents can show their children a path to freedom.","last_synced_at":"2026-07-04T04:20:44.407146+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/perfect-prey-a-coercive-control-podcast-6610448"},"episode":{"title":"How Predators Groom Children with Jeremy Indika","slug":"how-predators-groom-children-with-jeremy-indika","published_at":"2026-07-03T16:01:48+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/perfect-prey-a-coercive-control-podcast-6610448/how-predators-groom-children-with-jeremy-indika","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/perfect-prey-a-coercive-control-podcast-6610448","url":"https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/perfectpreypodcast/episodes/How-Predators-Groom-Children-with-Jeremy-Indika-e3lk92g","audio_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/e5f69b64/podcast/play/122348048/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-6-3%2Fb961f6cc-99d8-31a4-0f05-91f4b5db2340.mp3","summary":"Description In this episode of Perfect Prey, I’m joined by Jeremy Indika, child sexual abuse educator, survivor, speaker, and advocate. Jeremy shares his own experience of childhood sexual abuse and explains why understanding grooming, coercive control, and child exploitation has never been more urgent.Together, we explore how perpetrators identify vulnerable children, the similarities between child sexual predators and coercive controllers, and why abuse is so often hidden in plain sight. Jeremy explains how grooming happens both offline and online, why "stranger danger" misses the mark, and what parents can do to empower children without taking away their innocence. We also discuss the rise of online exploitation, the importance of body autonomy education, role-playing safety skills with children, and why creating confident, educated children makes them far less attractive targets for predators.This conversation is both deeply personal and incredibly practical—offering parents, caregivers, educators, and professionals the tools to better understand how abuse happens and, more importantly, how we can prevent it. What we cover •Jeremy Indika's story as a survivor of childhood sexual abuse•The connection between coercive control and child sexual abuse•The stages of grooming and how predators build trust•Why children are "perfect prey" for abusers•The dangers of online grooming, pornography, and sextortion•Why "stranger danger" is no longer enough•Body autonomy and age-appropriate abuse prevention•Teaching children confidence, boundaries, and safe disclosure•Why role-playing difficult situations helps protect children•Supporting children without creating fear•Why education—not shame—is the key to prevention Why listen If you're a parent, edu…","meta_description":"Description In this episode of Perfect Prey, I’m joined by Jeremy Indika, child sexual abuse educator, survivor, speaker, and advocate. Jeremy shares his…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2382,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/perfect-prey-a-coercive-control-podcast-6610448/episodes/how-predators-groom-children-with-jeremy-indika/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/perfect-prey-a-coercive-control-podcast-6610448/how-predators-groom-children-with-jeremy-indika.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}