{"podcast":{"title":"Pastors Thriving | Ministry, Leadership, Discipleship, Church Growth, Small Church Strategies","slug":"pastors-thriving-ministry-leadership-discipleship-church-growth-small-church-strategies-6589021","podcast_index_feed_id":6589021,"rss_url":"https://media.rss.com/kevinelworthunplugged/feed.xml","website_url":"http://www.pastorsthriving.com","image_url":"https://media.rss.com/kevinelworthunplugged/20240601_110619_eb9f1dfa08fcb16867f48f3494be5110.png","author":"Kevin Elworth-Business & Ministry Coach, Passive Income, Entrepreneur Pastor, Ministry Marketing","episode_count":142,"summary":"The SOURCE for Pastor help, encouragement, strategies for growth and Leadership Hey Pastor! Do you wish you knew the secret to growing your church while finding balance between ministry and your family? Do you find yourself updating your resume and browsing the job ads on ministryjobs.com ? Do you want to develop leaders within your church to relieve the burden from your shoulders, but instead you’re constantly dealing with drama and conflict? You’re in the right place. Welcome to Pastors Thriving, where you will learn the secrets to leadership growth in your church - spiritually, numerically, and financially. You’ll learn how to equip and develop your staff and congregation so that you don’t have to feel alone on this journey - and enjoy the ministry that you’ve been called to once again. Hi, I’m Kevin. Twenty-year ministry veteran, husband of a powerhouse wife, the father of 5 wonderful kids, and lover of Jesus powered by coffee and tacos. It wasn’t long ago that I grew a church from zero to 700 in five short years and wrestled with the trauma and drama that goes along with intense church growth. It wasn’t until I learned the power of creativity and how I could harness it to lea…","last_synced_at":"2026-06-18T20:17:17.951612+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/pastors-thriving-ministry-leadership-discipleship-church-growth-small-church-strategies-6589021"},"episode":{"title":"093 - Don’t Lead From Tension: What Jephthah Teaches Pastors About Pressure, Proof, and Trust","slug":"093-don-t-lead-from-tension-what-jephthah-teaches-pastors-about-pressure-proof-and-trust","published_at":"2026-02-03T06:11:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/pastors-thriving-ministry-leadership-discipleship-church-growth-small-church-strategies-6589021/093-don-t-lead-from-tension-what-jephthah-teaches-pastors-about-pressure-proof-and-trust","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/pastors-thriving-ministry-leadership-discipleship-church-growth-small-church-strategies-6589021","url":"https://rss.com/podcasts/kevinelworthunplugged/2506986","audio_url":"https://content.rss.com/episodes/226009/2506986/kevinelworthunplugged/2026_01_30_16_47_17_f2d10193-3700-467b-8d53-f3f66393120f.mp3","summary":"Pastors today are carrying immense pressure—often quietly. Pressure to prove their calling. Pressure to justify their leadership. Pressure to keep going, even when the cost feels too high. In this episode of Pastors Thriving , Kevin invites pastors into a reflective, Scripture-anchored conversation centered on the story of Jephthah in Judges 11. Rather than approaching the passage academically, Kevin explores it pastorally—using Jephthah’s story as a mirror for how unresolved tension, insecurity, and cultural pressure can shape leadership decisions today. This is a deeply formational episode for pastors who feel stretched, questioned, or quietly exhausted—and who may be carrying vows, sacrifices, or expectations God never asked them to carry. In This Episode, You’ll Hear About: Why many pastors feel an internal pressure to prove themselves How unresolved tension can begin to drive leadership decisions The difference between biblical authority and cultural expectation Why Jephthah’s vow was unnecessary—and what that reveals about leadership under pressure How insecurity, not rebellion, often leads to unhealthy sacrifice The danger of keeping promises God never required Why tension is not a command to act, but an invitation to discern How pastors can move from pressure and proving into trust and clarity Key Leadership Insight “Insecurity under pressure leads to vows God never required.” Jephthah did not lack calling, courage, or opportunity. What he lacked was clarity in the presence of tension. This episode reframes tension not as failure—but as a signal. A moment to pause, listen, and discern what God is actually asking, rather than reacting from fear or cultural expectation. 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