{"podcast":{"title":"Paring Down: Realistic minimalism, decluttering, & intentional living","slug":"paring-down-realistic-minimalism-decluttering-intentional-living-6661207","podcast_index_feed_id":6661207,"rss_url":"https://feeds.megaphone.fm/paringdown","website_url":null,"image_url":"https://megaphone.imgix.net/podcasts/47e6dbe2-755c-11ef-9cd8-0fce2eff9933/image/fb6627e19d648874905086dec75efc16.png?ixlib=rails-4.3.1&max-w=3000&max-h=3000&fit=crop&auto=format,compress","author":"Cloud10","episode_count":193,"summary":"If staunch minimalism feels too extreme, but you want to declutter your house to alleviate some stress, this is the podcast for you. Shannon Leyko's style is like having your best friend in your ear, helping you get past those tough mental roadblocks that are keeping you from decluttering the things you don't need. From New York Times bestselling authors to everyday people in the trenches of life, Shannon's guests give practical tips and mindset advice for intentional living and self-improvement. Listen to Paring Down if you've ever asked yourself... Where do I start decluttering my house? Where do I start decluttering when overwhelmed? How do I declutter if I have ADHD? What if I end up needing something I decluttered? How can I stop shopping my shopping addiction? How do I stop being stressed? How do I keep my house clean? How do I tidy my room? How do I get my husband or wife to declutter? How many toys should a child have? How can I save money? What is minimalism? How can I be a minimalist with kids? What should I declutter first? How can I be a conscious consumer? Find more of Shannon's work: Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.shannonleyko.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…","last_synced_at":"2026-07-26T08:21:32.413850+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/paring-down-realistic-minimalism-decluttering-intentional-living-6661207"},"episode":{"title":"163: Why Gatekeepers Always Lose Even Though They Think They're Getting Ahead","slug":"163-why-gatekeepers-always-lose-even-though-they-think-they-re-getting-ahead","published_at":"2026-05-27T09:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/paring-down-realistic-minimalism-decluttering-intentional-living-6661207/163-why-gatekeepers-always-lose-even-though-they-think-they-re-getting-ahead","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/paring-down-realistic-minimalism-decluttering-intentional-living-6661207","url":"https://traffic.megaphone.fm/CTL8570144580.mp3","audio_url":"https://traffic.megaphone.fm/CTL8570144580.mp3","summary":"It's the WORST when people \"hide\" information or help because they think it will help them get ahead or gain respect...psychology tells us it will do the opposite. In this Good Stuff episode about filling our lives with community, I unpack why we're prone to gatekeeping and why it ultimately works against us. In fact, sharing knowledge, connections, and resources freely is the key to building real community and personal success. What you'll learn: The three mental traps that make gatekeeping feel logical—even when it isn't Why sharing what you know actually deepens your own expertise through the \"protege effect\" How weak ties and becoming a connector can open doors your closest relationships never could ...and more. If you're ready to stop protecting your seat at the table and start making the table bigger, this one's for you. 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