{"podcast":{"title":"Paring Down: Realistic minimalism, decluttering, & intentional living","slug":"paring-down-realistic-minimalism-decluttering-intentional-living-6661207","podcast_index_feed_id":6661207,"rss_url":"https://feeds.megaphone.fm/paringdown","website_url":null,"image_url":"https://megaphone.imgix.net/podcasts/47e6dbe2-755c-11ef-9cd8-0fce2eff9933/image/fb6627e19d648874905086dec75efc16.png?ixlib=rails-4.3.1&max-w=3000&max-h=3000&fit=crop&auto=format,compress","author":"Cloud10","episode_count":193,"summary":"If staunch minimalism feels too extreme, but you want to declutter your house to alleviate some stress, this is the podcast for you. Shannon Leyko's style is like having your best friend in your ear, helping you get past those tough mental roadblocks that are keeping you from decluttering the things you don't need. From New York Times bestselling authors to everyday people in the trenches of life, Shannon's guests give practical tips and mindset advice for intentional living and self-improvement. Listen to Paring Down if you've ever asked yourself... Where do I start decluttering my house? Where do I start decluttering when overwhelmed? How do I declutter if I have ADHD? What if I end up needing something I decluttered? How can I stop shopping my shopping addiction? How do I stop being stressed? How do I keep my house clean? How do I tidy my room? How do I get my husband or wife to declutter? How many toys should a child have? How can I save money? What is minimalism? How can I be a minimalist with kids? What should I declutter first? How can I be a conscious consumer? 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Understanding how these two types of relationships work differently could be the key to finally feeling like you truly belong. In this episode, you'll learn: • Why you can't substitute community with friendship (or vice versa) • The science behind \"weak ties\"—research shows that casual, repeated interactions with acquaintances may matter more to your daily wellbeing than the number of close friends you have • What makes a community actually thrive If you've ever felt lonely despite having good friends or wondered why something still feels missing from your social life, this episode will give you a whole new framework for understanding what you actually need—and how to find it. MENTIONED THIS EPISODE: Episode 81: The Art of Making Friends & How It Helps Us Declutter PARING DOWN (SHANNON LEYKO): Sign up for my newsletter! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The L.E.S.S. 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