{"podcast":{"title":"Pardon the Mess with Scarlet Hiltibidal - Christian Motherhood, Biblical Parenting, Raising Christian Kids","slug":"pardon-the-mess-with-courtney-defeo-christian-motherhood-biblical-parenting-raising-christian-kids-399929","podcast_index_feed_id":399929,"rss_url":"https://feeds.redcircle.com/b496157d-bbb3-4b1f-977b-d1cd21a52262","website_url":"https://redcircle.com/shows/pardon-the-mess-with-scarlet-hiltibidal","image_url":"https://media.redcircle.com/images/2026/6/1/17/7766b28c-8e47-4650-aed4-32a0dab4c557_pardon_the_mess_refresh_final__1___2_.jpg","author":"Scarlet Hiltibidal and Christian Parenting","episode_count":671,"summary":"As parents, we know raising kids is the opposite of neat and tidy. Pardon the Mess is a podcast for Christian moms who love Jesus, love their kids, and still feel behind on most days. 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But in the middle of busy schedules and full lives, it can be easy to lose sight of what we’re actually passing down. In this month’s My Virtual Mentor episode, Jeff Henderson, author, pastor, and leader, shares wisdom on what it means to live and lead with legacy in mind. The conversation explores what truly matters at the end of our lives, the values we want to instill in our children, and how to be more intentional with the time we’ve been given. We talk about the tension between work and family, why choosing your family matters more than you think, and how everyday decisions shape the kind of legacy you leave behind. This episode is designed to not only encourage personal growth, but also spark meaningful conversations, with a mentor, spouse, or trusted friend, about the kind of life and family you want to build. 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