{"podcast":{"title":"Not Saving It For Later - Guiding Women Through Divorce & Beyond","slug":"not-saving-it-for-later-guiding-women-through-divorce-beyond-7583647","podcast_index_feed_id":7583647,"rss_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/10b02d008/podcast/rss","website_url":"NotSavingItForLater.com","image_url":"https://d3t3ozftmdmh3i.cloudfront.net/staging/podcast_uploaded_nologo/44697010/44697010-1761688278302-63665b96b77e8.jpg","author":"Hannah Hembree Bell","episode_count":21,"summary":"Hosted by Hannah Hembree Bell — Texas divorce lawyer, mom, and woman who’s been through it — Not Saving It For Later is the podcast that finally says out loud what everyone else is whispering about divorce, co-parenting, money, dating, and identity. This isn’t polite small talk about “new beginnings.” It’s real conversation about what it takes to tear down a life that no longer fits and build one that finally does.","last_synced_at":"2026-06-30T14:17:02.210449+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/not-saving-it-for-later-guiding-women-through-divorce-beyond-7583647"},"episode":{"title":"Do You Want Justice… or Do You Want Peace? (Featuring Sam Colletti)","slug":"do-you-want-justice-or-do-you-want-peace-featuring-sam-colletti","published_at":"2026-01-13T05:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/not-saving-it-for-later-guiding-women-through-divorce-beyond-7583647/do-you-want-justice-or-do-you-want-peace-featuring-sam-colletti","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/not-saving-it-for-later-guiding-women-through-divorce-beyond-7583647","url":"https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hannah-hembree-bell/episodes/Do-You-Want-Justice-or-Do-You-Want-Peace--Featuring-Sam-Colletti-e3de36j","audio_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/10b02d008/podcast/play/113756819/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-0-9%2F415818089-44100-2-324178aae3b55.mp3","summary":"Ep. 9 Do You Want Justice… or Do You Want Peace? (Featuring Sam Colletti) Hannah sits down with Austin family law attorney and mediator Sam Colletti , a trusted colleague and longtime friend, for a ground-level conversation about what mediation actually is , what it isn’t, and why so many people misunderstand their options during divorce. This episode pulls back the curtain on the divorce process — especially the emotional traps that keep people stuck chasing “justice,” burning money, and handing control of their future to a system that was never designed to heal them. If you’ve ever said “I don’t want to go to court — I just want mediation,” this conversation is for you. Hannah and Sam break down: why mediation is not the opposite of court (it’s a waypoint), how chasing retribution often costs more than it gives, where real control actually lives in divorce, and how staying curious instead of judgmental can change the outcome of your case — and your life after it. This is a practical, honest, and human episode about ending a marriage well , protecting your future self, and choosing peace without pretending the pain doesn’t exist. 00:00 – Welcome to Not Saving It for Later 01:00 – Hannah and Sam’s real-life friendship & why this conversation matters 04:30 – What mediation actually is (and why “mediation vs. court” is the wrong question) 08:00 – Why mediation is a waypoint — not a magic alternative 11:45 – The risks of going to court: bells you can’t un-ring 14:00 – Why attorney choice shapes your entire divorce experience 17:00 – The myth of justice in divorce (and what people are really chasing) 21:00 – “Do you want to be right, or do you want to be happy?” 24:00 – Control: where you have it in mediation — and where you lose it in court 28:00 – Why high-conflict c…","meta_description":"Ep. 9 Do You Want Justice… or Do You Want Peace? (Featuring Sam Colletti) Hannah sits down with Austin family law attorney and mediator Sam Colletti , a t…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":5485,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/not-saving-it-for-later-guiding-women-through-divorce-beyond-7583647/episodes/do-you-want-justice-or-do-you-want-peace-featuring-sam-colletti/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/not-saving-it-for-later-guiding-women-through-divorce-beyond-7583647/do-you-want-justice-or-do-you-want-peace-featuring-sam-colletti.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}