{"podcast":{"title":"New Manager Conversations with Fexingo: First 90 Days, Managing Former Peers, and Leadership Basics","slug":"new-manager-conversations-with-fexingo-first-90-days-managing-former-peers-and-leadership-basics-7871636","podcast_index_feed_id":7871636,"rss_url":"https://feeds.fexingo.com/business/new-manager-conversations.xml","website_url":"https://www.fexingo.com/","image_url":"https://audio.fexingo.com/business/new-manager-conversations/cover.png","author":"Fexingo","episode_count":122,"summary":"Lucas and Luna explore the first 90 days of a new manager, from navigating the transition from peer to boss to building credibility without authority. Each episode examines a specific management challenge using real cases: how a tech lead at Spotify handled team pushback on code reviews, why a retail store manager at Patagonia reversed a 15% turnover by changing one-on-one meeting structure, and what data from Gallup's 2023 manager engagement survey reveals about the most common mistakes new leaders make. Lucas brings the research and frameworks — the Gartner manager readiness model, the 30-60-90 day templates from Harvard Business Review, and compensation data from Payscale — while Luna tests them against her own experience managing a marketing team and pushes for the messy human decisions behind the charts. They don't prescribe a single playbook; instead, they argue about when to impose structure and when to let norms emerge, how to handle a former peer who now resists direction, and what to do when your first hire quits in week six. Every conversation ends with a specific tension left unresolved: Is it better to over-communicate in the first month or let your team discover your…","last_synced_at":"2026-07-19T04:19:01.876952+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/new-manager-conversations-with-fexingo-first-90-days-managing-former-peers-and-leadership-basics-7871636"},"episode":{"title":"How New Managers Can Transition From Peer to Boss Without Losing Relationships","slug":"how-new-managers-can-transition-from-peer-to-boss-without-losing-relationships","published_at":"2026-06-11T04:54:08+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/new-manager-conversations-with-fexingo-first-90-days-managing-former-peers-and-leadership-basics-7871636/how-new-managers-can-transition-from-peer-to-boss-without-losing-relationships","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/new-manager-conversations-with-fexingo-first-90-days-managing-former-peers-and-leadership-basics-7871636","url":"https://audio.fexingo.com/business/new-manager-conversations/episode-0044.mp3","audio_url":"https://audio.fexingo.com/business/new-manager-conversations/episode-0044.mp3","summary":"In this episode, Lucas and Luna tackle one of the hardest transitions in a new manager's career: moving from peer to supervisor. They walk through the story of a marketing team lead at a mid-size tech firm who had to manage three former colleagues after a promotion. Lucas breaks down the key mistake most new managers make—trying to keep everything the same—and offers a concrete framework: the ninety-day friendship fade. He explains how to have the 'reset conversation' early, set new boundaries around decision-making and feedback, and handle the inevitable awkwardness. Luna pushes back with a real-world example of a team that rejected a peer-turned-boss, and Lucas shares how to rebuild trust when the promotion wasn't universally supported. The episode includes a light-touch listener-support moment, then closes with a forward-looking question about whether you can ever go back to being 'just friends' with a former peer. Specific, actionable, and grounded in real-team dynamics. #NewManager #PeerToBoss #First90Days #LeadershipTransition #ManagingFormerPeers #CareerAdvice #ManagementTips #TeamDynamics #Boundaries #ResetConversation #Promotion #TrustBuilding #FeedbackCulture #WorkplaceRelationships #Careers #FexingoBusiness #BusinessPodcast #LeadershipBasics Keep every episode free: buymeacoffee.com/fexingo","meta_description":"In this episode, Lucas and Luna tackle one of the hardest transitions in a new manager's career: moving from peer to supervisor. 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