{"podcast":{"title":"Never Perfect","slug":"never-perfect-3666863","podcast_index_feed_id":3666863,"rss_url":"https://feeds.megaphone.fm/neverperfect","website_url":null,"image_url":"https://megaphone.imgix.net/podcasts/e71b65b0-7aac-11eb-9ce5-8fcc9bb33c7d/image/FINAL+THUMBNAIL1400-01.png?ixlib=rails-4.3.1&max-w=3000&max-h=3000&fit=crop&auto=format,compress","author":"Elizabeth Capecchi, Ph.D","episode_count":172,"summary":"As a psychologist, I have a sacred opportunity to both teach and learn from my clients. It is my mission to bring honest, real life stories to the light in hopes that the listeners might grow from them and be as inspired by them as I am, because there is no better way to struggle than “together. As a psychologist, I am driven by curiosity to gain greater understanding of others, as we navigate our way through this “never perfect” life.","last_synced_at":"2026-07-05T22:18:34.456002+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/never-perfect-3666863"},"episode":{"title":"Navigating Relationship Differences: Competing Needs, Agendas and Personalities","slug":"navigating-relationship-differences-competing-needs-agendas-and-personalities","published_at":"2026-01-08T17:04:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/never-perfect-3666863/navigating-relationship-differences-competing-needs-agendas-and-personalities","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/never-perfect-3666863","url":"https://traffic.megaphone.fm/ECP7560143550.mp3","audio_url":"https://traffic.megaphone.fm/ECP7560143550.mp3","summary":"In this solo episode, Dr. Beth dives into a topic that touches every relationship we have—navigating differences, competing needs, and the tension between togetherness and independence. From dating to long-term marriage, friendships to family life, differences are inevitable—but how we think about them can make all the difference. Using real client conversations, personal reflections, and everyday examples, Dr. Beth explores questions we often avoid but desperately need to ask: How much do you expect your partner to fulfill you? How much independence do you need to feel like yourself? What happens when the traits you once loved start to frustrate you? This episode covers: Competing needs and agendas in relationships Togetherness vs. individuality (and why there’s no “right” formula for achieving this) Why expecting one person to meet all your needs can backfire How honeymoon phases shift into real life—and what to do next Practical questions to help couples prepare for inevitable differences This is a realistic, compassionate conversation meant to spark reflection—not perfection. Whether you’re dating, married, or simply trying to understand yourself better in relationships, this episode offers food for thought, cognitive shifts to help with processing and accepting divergent needs and agendas , and tips for communicating about these struggles. 💛 We need your help! This podcast is funded by Dr. Beth, and we are looking for donations from listeners and potential sponsors. If you’re interested in contributing, you can send donations via Venmo (⁠https://account.venmo.com/u/NeverPerfectPodcast⁠) or email ⁠neverperfecteya@gmail.com⁠ to find out other ways to donate. 🎧 Listen to this episode and more: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠neverperfect.org⁠📲 Follow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@neverperfect…","meta_description":"In this solo episode, Dr. Beth dives into a topic that touches every relationship we have—navigating differences, competing needs, and the tension between…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":1407,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/never-perfect-3666863/episodes/navigating-relationship-differences-competing-needs-agendas-and-personalities/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/never-perfect-3666863/navigating-relationship-differences-competing-needs-agendas-and-personalities.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}