{"podcast":{"title":"Mostly Dating","slug":"mostly-dating-129799","podcast_index_feed_id":129799,"rss_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/146aebcc/podcast/rss","website_url":"https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mostlydating","image_url":"https://d3t3ozftmdmh3i.cloudfront.net/staging/podcast_uploaded_nologo/3325515/3325515-1740529164031-99821d846edc2.jpg","author":"Carleigh","episode_count":302,"summary":"Mostly Dating is a podcast with approachable advice for every stage of dating and relationships. Host Carleigh Ferrante dives into the world of modern dating and relationships with approachable, relatable advice. Tune in weekly for practical tips, listener questions, and conversations that help you build healthier, happier, and more lasting connections—and find us on Instagram @mostlydating.","last_synced_at":"2026-09-29T06:17:37.447790+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/mostly-dating-129799"},"episode":{"title":"Why You Need To Be With Someone With A Growth Mindset","slug":"why-you-need-to-be-with-someone-with-a-growth-mindset","published_at":"2026-05-04T04:02:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/mostly-dating-129799/why-you-need-to-be-with-someone-with-a-growth-mindset","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/mostly-dating-129799","url":"https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mostlydating/episodes/Why-You-Need-To-Be-With-Someone-With-A-Growth-Mindset-e3irai5","audio_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/146aebcc/podcast/play/119433221/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-4-4%2F423397506-44100-2-c82e8758228f4.m4a","summary":"Welcome back! Today we're diving into the results from my recent Instagram poll about common reasons people end a relationship or stop going on dates with someone. Next, we answer listener questions about how to stop yourself from "future tripping" and why planning your future with someone too soon can actually have a negative impact on the relationship, how soon is too soon to sext, whether you should end things if you don't feel "in love" after three months, and more. Read my most recent Substacks: ⁠⁠⁠⁠How To Find Out Fast If Your Values Are Aligned⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠How to Meet People IRL & Make Yourself More Approachable⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠ As always, find me on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@mostlydating⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ . And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review! To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, submit it ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email carleigh@mostly-dating.com.","meta_description":"Welcome back! Today we're diving into the results from my recent Instagram poll about common reasons people end a relationship or stop going on dates with…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2489,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/mostly-dating-129799/episodes/why-you-need-to-be-with-someone-with-a-growth-mindset/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/mostly-dating-129799/why-you-need-to-be-with-someone-with-a-growth-mindset.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}