{"podcast":{"title":"Mostly Dating","slug":"mostly-dating-129799","podcast_index_feed_id":129799,"rss_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/146aebcc/podcast/rss","website_url":"https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mostlydating","image_url":"https://d3t3ozftmdmh3i.cloudfront.net/staging/podcast_uploaded_nologo/3325515/3325515-1740529164031-99821d846edc2.jpg","author":"Carleigh","episode_count":302,"summary":"Mostly Dating is a podcast with approachable advice for every stage of dating and relationships. Host Carleigh Ferrante dives into the world of modern dating and relationships with approachable, relatable advice. Tune in weekly for practical tips, listener questions, and conversations that help you build healthier, happier, and more lasting connections—and find us on Instagram @mostlydating.","last_synced_at":"2026-09-29T06:17:37.447790+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/mostly-dating-129799"},"episode":{"title":"I Think My Boyfriend Is Judging My Spending Habits","slug":"i-think-my-boyfriend-is-judging-my-spending-habits","published_at":"2026-04-27T04:02:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/mostly-dating-129799/i-think-my-boyfriend-is-judging-my-spending-habits","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/mostly-dating-129799","url":"https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mostlydating/episodes/I-Think-My-Boyfriend-Is-Judging-My-Spending-Habits-e3igs33","audio_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/146aebcc/podcast/play/119090723/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-3-27%2F422929856-44100-2-50a43e7d4d687.m4a","summary":"Welcome back! Today we're answering listener questions about a boyfriend who makes weird comments about a listener's spending habits, another boyfriend who refuses to use words of affirmation, a long-distance pen pal situation, dating after divorce, and what to do when your partner speaks for you in social settings. Read my most recent Substacks: ⁠⁠⁠How To Find Out Fast If Your Values Are Aligned⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠How to Meet People IRL &amp; Make Yourself More Approachable⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠ As always, find me on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@mostlydating⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ . And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating &amp; review! To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, submit it ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email carleigh@mostly-dating.com.","meta_description":"Welcome back! Today we're answering listener questions about a boyfriend who makes weird comments about a listener's spending habits, another boyfriend wh…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2648,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/mostly-dating-129799/episodes/i-think-my-boyfriend-is-judging-my-spending-habits/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/mostly-dating-129799/i-think-my-boyfriend-is-judging-my-spending-habits.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}