{"podcast":{"title":"Mostly Dating","slug":"mostly-dating-129799","podcast_index_feed_id":129799,"rss_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/146aebcc/podcast/rss","website_url":"https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mostlydating","image_url":"https://d3t3ozftmdmh3i.cloudfront.net/staging/podcast_uploaded_nologo/3325515/3325515-1740529164031-99821d846edc2.jpg","author":"Carleigh","episode_count":302,"summary":"Mostly Dating is a podcast with approachable advice for every stage of dating and relationships. Host Carleigh Ferrante dives into the world of modern dating and relationships with approachable, relatable advice. Tune in weekly for practical tips, listener questions, and conversations that help you build healthier, happier, and more lasting connections—and find us on Instagram @mostlydating.","last_synced_at":"2026-09-29T06:17:37.447790+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/mostly-dating-129799"},"episode":{"title":"How To Get Your Boyfriend To Plan Better Dates","slug":"how-to-get-your-boyfriend-to-plan-better-dates","published_at":"2026-08-03T12:19:39+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/mostly-dating-129799/how-to-get-your-boyfriend-to-plan-better-dates","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/mostly-dating-129799","url":"https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mostlydating/episodes/How-To-Get-Your-Boyfriend-To-Plan-Better-Dates-e3mskfe","audio_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/146aebcc/podcast/play/123670446/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-7-2%2F429088779-44100-2-4a1afe037faec.m4a","summary":"Welcome back! Today we’re getting into some listener questions about how male/female friendships evolve when one of you is in a relationship, what to do when your relationship is starting to feel stale and your partner isn’t planning any fun dates, saying thank you in a relationship, and if it’s possible to be “too independent” for someone to want a relationship with you. We wrap up by talking about how to keep momentum early on in dating when you’re not able to see each other a lot because of travel, etc. Read my Substack with ⁠⁠⁠⁠tips to avoid future tripping in a new relationship⁠⁠⁠⁠ . ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ As always, find me on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@mostlydating⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ . And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review! To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, submit it ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email carleigh@mostly-dating.com.","meta_description":"Welcome back! Today we’re getting into some listener questions about how male/female friendships evolve when one of you is in a relationship, what to do w…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2797,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/mostly-dating-129799/episodes/how-to-get-your-boyfriend-to-plan-better-dates/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/mostly-dating-129799/how-to-get-your-boyfriend-to-plan-better-dates.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}