{"podcast":{"title":"Mostly Dating","slug":"mostly-dating-129799","podcast_index_feed_id":129799,"rss_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/146aebcc/podcast/rss","website_url":"https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mostlydating","image_url":"https://d3t3ozftmdmh3i.cloudfront.net/staging/podcast_uploaded_nologo/3325515/3325515-1740529164031-99821d846edc2.jpg","author":"Carleigh","episode_count":302,"summary":"Mostly Dating is a podcast with approachable advice for every stage of dating and relationships. Host Carleigh Ferrante dives into the world of modern dating and relationships with approachable, relatable advice. Tune in weekly for practical tips, listener questions, and conversations that help you build healthier, happier, and more lasting connections—and find us on Instagram @mostlydating.","last_synced_at":"2026-09-29T06:17:37.447790+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/mostly-dating-129799"},"episode":{"title":"6 Dating Non-Negotiables I Keep Seeing People Negotiate","slug":"6-dating-non-negotiables-i-keep-seeing-people-negotiate","published_at":"2026-09-14T04:01:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/mostly-dating-129799/6-dating-non-negotiables-i-keep-seeing-people-negotiate","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/mostly-dating-129799","url":"https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mostlydating/episodes/6-Dating-Non-Negotiables-I-Keep-Seeing-People-Negotiate-e3oqecv","audio_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/146aebcc/podcast/play/125695839/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-14%2F431836418-44100-2-e76baa5939c18.m4a","summary":"Welcome back! We’re kicking things off today by going through my list of six dating non-negotiables I keep seeing people negotiate. Next, we get into a question from a listener who is frustrated by her boyfriend’s chaotic, rushed energy in the mornings, followed by a listener whose boyfriend is sending secret Instagram messages to his ex. Read my Substack ⁠⁠How To Find Out If Your Values Are Aligned Before You're Too Invested ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ As always, find me on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@mostlydating⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ . And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review! To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, submit it ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email carleigh@mostly-dating.com.","meta_description":"Welcome back! We’re kicking things off today by going through my list of six dating non-negotiables I keep seeing people negotiate. Next, we get into a qu…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2413,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/mostly-dating-129799/episodes/6-dating-non-negotiables-i-keep-seeing-people-negotiate/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/mostly-dating-129799/6-dating-non-negotiables-i-keep-seeing-people-negotiate.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}