{"podcast":{"title":"Modern Love","slug":"modern-love-3267462","podcast_index_feed_id":3267462,"rss_url":"https://www.spreaker.com/show/4770331/episodes/feed","website_url":"https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/modern-love--4770331","image_url":"https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/8d6aa672a8d37ac5ea66d1c81a691864.jpg","author":"Seleman","episode_count":202,"summary":"For 16 years, the Modern Love column has given New York Times readers a glimpse into the complicated love lives of real people. Since its start, the column has evolved into a TV show, three books and a podcast. Now, we are excited to announce a relaunch of the podcast at The Times, hosted by Daniel Jones, the editor and creator of Modern Love, and Miya Lee, editor of Tiny Love Stories and Modern Love projects. Each week, we’ll bring you their favorite stories from the column’s vast archive, conversations with the authors, and a few surprises. New episodes every Wednesday.","last_synced_at":"2026-07-22T18:20:47.327099+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/modern-love-3267462"},"episode":{"title":"I Was the Fun Dad. It Almost Destroyed My Marriage.","slug":"i-was-the-fun-dad-it-almost-destroyed-my-marriage","published_at":"2026-01-28T10:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/modern-love-3267462/i-was-the-fun-dad-it-almost-destroyed-my-marriage","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/modern-love-3267462","url":"https://www.spreaker.com/episode/i-was-the-fun-dad-it-almost-destroyed-my-marriage--69641435","audio_url":"https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69641435/default.mp3","summary":"When Jordan Carlos looks back on the role he was playing in his family a few years ago, he does not like what he sees. He was bringing home a good salary as a comedian, but doing only the bare minimum as a husband and a dad. When Jordan did show up at home, he was more likely to take the kids out for an all-day candy binge than to take them to the dentist or to tuck them in by bedtime.But Jordan got a painful wake-up call when the pandemic hit and his work came to a halt. Home all the time, Jordan looked around and noticed that nobody seemed to need, or expect, any help from him. And his marriage was in serious trouble.This week on “Modern Love,” Jordan explains how he let things get so bad in the first place, and how day by day, chore by chore, he started to take responsibility for all the little things that actually mean a lot.Jordan’s book, “Choreplay: The Marriage-Saving Magic of Getting Your Head Out of Your Ass,” comes out Feb. 10.Listener Callout: “Modern Love” wants to hear from you. What’s the most romantic thing that has ever happened to you? What’s the most romantic thing you’ve ever witnessed? If something made you feel that rush of romance, send us a voice memo by Feb. 4, and we may use it on the show. Check out our submission page to learn more. Subscribe today at nytimes.com/podcasts or on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. You can also subscribe via your favorite podcast app here https://www.nytimes.com/activate-access/audio?source=podcatcher . For more podcasts and narrated articles, download The New York Times app at nytimes.com/app.","meta_description":"When Jordan Carlos looks back on the role he was playing in his family a few years ago, he does not like what he sees. He was bringing home a good salary…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2676,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/modern-love-3267462/episodes/i-was-the-fun-dad-it-almost-destroyed-my-marriage/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/modern-love-3267462/i-was-the-fun-dad-it-almost-destroyed-my-marriage.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}