{"podcast":{"title":"Mind Over Masculinity","slug":"mind-over-masculinity-7710851","podcast_index_feed_id":7710851,"rss_url":"https://feeds.captivate.fm/mind-over-masculinity/","website_url":"https://www.podhub.club","image_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/75d1fd94-b981-4db9-8d2c-62e0cb4bc74a/lixfg9y8bkdk92vanxdi7hauq6o2.jpg","author":"Avik Chakraborty","episode_count":342,"summary":"Let’s stop asking men to ”man up” and start asking how we can lift them up. After all, mental health is not just a women’s issue or a men’s issue—it’s a human issue.Take the first step today. Talk, listen, and advocate. Together, we can make a difference.","last_synced_at":"2026-10-01T14:19:42.601732+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/mind-over-masculinity-7710851"},"episode":{"title":"Why Stoicism Is Not Strength: Men, Trauma and Asking for Help with Willie Handler","slug":"why-stoicism-is-not-strength-men-trauma-and-asking-for-help-with-willie-handler","published_at":"2026-09-28T15:40:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/mind-over-masculinity-7710851/why-stoicism-is-not-strength-men-trauma-and-asking-for-help-with-willie-handler","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/mind-over-masculinity-7710851","url":"https://mind-over-masculinity.captivate.fm/episode/why-stoicism-is-not-strength-men-trauma-and-asking-for-help-with-willie-handler","audio_url":"https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/10b63aac-c54c-4b49-a9cc-ae9c9d7b7032.mp3","summary":"What if the armor you wear to protect yourself is the very thing holding you back? This episode of Mind Over Masculinity is for any man who has learned to push through alone and wonders whether it's actually working. Author Willie Handler shares how writing his family's history brought buried trauma to the surface, why he nearly quit therapy several times, and how opening up changed his marriage. About the Guest: Willie Handler is an author of fiction and non-fiction. Writing a memoir about his family's history surfaced long-buried trauma, and getting professional help changed both his life and the book. He also created a podcast series on men and trauma. Key Takeaways: Stoicism can lead to burnout and weaker emotional support at home. In healing, you often feel worse before you feel better. That's part of the process. There's no quick cure for trauma. Stepping away too early can send you back. When you change, the people closest to you notice and may need time to adjust. A support network that encourages the work makes it easier. Connect With the Guest: Website: https://williehandler.com Substack: https://williehandler.substack.com Books: https://williehandler.com/books-by-willie-handler/ Episode Chapters (approx.): [00:00] The Armor We Wear - an opening on what we were taught about strength [01:30] The Cost of Stoicism - burnout, distance, and a series on men and trauma [03:30] Writing Through the Past - a family memoir that opened old wounds [05:30] Worse Before Better - quitting therapy and coming back [07:30] When Crisis Hits - pushing it down or facing it head on [09:00] How Relationships Shift - what his wife saw after 40 years [11:30] Worth It - support networks and a doctor who asked the right question 🎙️ Want to Be a Guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life ? Send…","meta_description":"What if the armor you wear to protect yourself is the very thing holding you back? This episode of Mind Over Masculinity is for any man who has learned to…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":1020,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/mind-over-masculinity-7710851/episodes/why-stoicism-is-not-strength-men-trauma-and-asking-for-help-with-willie-handler/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/mind-over-masculinity-7710851/why-stoicism-is-not-strength-men-trauma-and-asking-for-help-with-willie-handler.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}