{"podcast":{"title":"Mind Over Masculinity","slug":"mind-over-masculinity-7710851","podcast_index_feed_id":7710851,"rss_url":"https://feeds.captivate.fm/mind-over-masculinity/","website_url":"https://www.podhub.club","image_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/75d1fd94-b981-4db9-8d2c-62e0cb4bc74a/lixfg9y8bkdk92vanxdi7hauq6o2.jpg","author":"Avik Chakraborty","episode_count":342,"summary":"Let’s stop asking men to ”man up” and start asking how we can lift them up. After all, mental health is not just a women’s issue or a men’s issue—it’s a human issue.Take the first step today. Talk, listen, and advocate. Together, we can make a difference.","last_synced_at":"2026-10-01T14:19:42.601732+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/mind-over-masculinity-7710851"},"episode":{"title":"Redefining Strength Beyond Performance: Alan Bodnar on Real Masculinity","slug":"redefining-strength-beyond-performance-alan-bodnar-on-real-masculinity","published_at":"2026-09-09T12:30:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/mind-over-masculinity-7710851/redefining-strength-beyond-performance-alan-bodnar-on-real-masculinity","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/mind-over-masculinity-7710851","url":"https://mind-over-masculinity.captivate.fm/episode/redefining-strength-beyond-performance-alan-bodnar-on-real-masculinity","audio_url":"https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/915ef290-9056-4e1a-a7e4-12022e3f9dd3.mp3","summary":"If you've ever measured your worth by how much you can carry without breaking, this episode is for you. Host Swati talks with author Alan Bodnar about redefining strength beyond performance, and why real strength has little to do with never showing emotion. Alan shares the neuroscience behind these patterns, why vulnerability is not weakness, and one simple breathing practice to take back the wheel from old responses. About the Guest: Alan Bodnar has spent over a decade studying neuroscience and mindfulness to understand how the brain wires automatic patterns. He is the author of The Self-Driving You, a framework for taking conscious control of those patterns. Key Takeaways: Many men are taught early that strength means hiding emotion and never stopping. The brain wires automatic patterns through repetition, they are not personal failures. Slowing your breath activates calm, giving you a pause before reacting on autopilot. Vulnerability is not weakness, it is what actually connects people to each other. Changing an old pattern can take hundreds of repetitions, progress over perfection matters. Connect With Alan Bodnar: Website: https://theselfdrivingyou.com Book: The Self-Driving You (Amazon and Audible) Instagram, LinkedIn, and TikTok: @theselfdrivingyou (Instagram is the best way to reach him) Episode Chapters: [00:00] Welcome to Mind Over Masculinity (approx.) [02:00] Meet Alan Bodnar and The Self-Driving You (approx.) [06:00] The Biggest Misconception About Male Strength (approx.) [12:00] Where These Patterns Really Come From (approx.) [18:00] Taking the Wheel: Deliberate Attention and Breath (approx.) [25:00] Staying With Change When It Feels Uncomfortable (approx.) [29:00] Real Strength Is Vulnerability (approx.) 🎙️ Want to Be a Guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Lif…","meta_description":"If you've ever measured your worth by how much you can carry without breaking, this episode is for you. Host Swati talks with author Alan Bodnar about red…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":1831,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/mind-over-masculinity-7710851/episodes/redefining-strength-beyond-performance-alan-bodnar-on-real-masculinity/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/mind-over-masculinity-7710851/redefining-strength-beyond-performance-alan-bodnar-on-real-masculinity.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}