{"podcast":{"title":"Mind + Money: A Podcast All About Money and ADHD","slug":"mind-money-a-podcast-all-about-money-and-adhd-6847957","podcast_index_feed_id":6847957,"rss_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/10381e940/podcast/rss","website_url":"https://www.moneymindsetfc.com/mind-money-podcast","image_url":"https://d3t3ozftmdmh3i.cloudfront.net/staging/podcast_uploaded_nologo/43438128/43438128-1749153058691-2a78d377485c5.jpg","author":"Sherry + Val","episode_count":126,"summary":"We are two financial professionals with ADHD, and we are here to share strategies for changing your finances that align with how your unique brain works! We’ll also dive into different ADHD topics! The number of personal finance experts out there can feel overwhelming, and when we try to follow their ’must-follow’ steps to financial success and fail, we can feel defeated. Together, we will help you ditch the shame and make changes that feel aligned with the life you want to live! We’ll also share things we learn about ADHD along the way and what works for us to find balance in our lives.","last_synced_at":"2026-09-10T16:18:44.801513+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/mind-money-a-podcast-all-about-money-and-adhd-6847957"},"episode":{"title":"We React to a Reddit AITA About Splitting Money With Your Partner (Ep 124)","slug":"we-react-to-a-reddit-aita-about-splitting-money-with-your-partner-ep-124","published_at":"2026-08-13T09:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/mind-money-a-podcast-all-about-money-and-adhd-6847957/we-react-to-a-reddit-aita-about-splitting-money-with-your-partner-ep-124","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/mind-money-a-podcast-all-about-money-and-adhd-6847957","url":"https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sherry--val2/episodes/We-React-to-a-Reddit-AITA-About-Splitting-Money-With-Your-Partner-Ep-124-e3n30i8","audio_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/10381e940/podcast/play/123879432/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-7-6%2F429370606-44100-2-2ab000d62bf88.mp3","summary":"Ever kept a secret tally of what your partner owes you? Or have your partner agree to something and then not hold up their end of the agreement? This week we're digging into a Reddit AITA post about a couple stuck in a slow-motion money standoff, and it's messier (and more relatable) than it sounds. The original poster has been quietly tracking IOUs for over a year: Venmo requests that go unanswered, dinners he always ends up covering, and a running total that's crept past a thousand dollars. He wants to know if keeping that list makes him the asshole. We dig into: - Why "not the asshole" doesn't mean the relationship is actually fine - The difference between tracking money and avoiding a real conversation - What a shared "fun account" could solve that a Venmo request never will - Why a cohabitation agreement is worth the awkward conversation, especially when only one of you owns the home This one's a good gut check for anyone who's ever let a money frustration fester instead of naming it out loud. Connect with us: Book a free call with Val (financial planner): https://calendly.com/valerie-stratford Book a free call with Sherry (financial coach): https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=17480698&appointmentType=25737393 Val's Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/you.me.and.money Sherry's Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/moneymindsetfc Podcast Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/mind.money.adhd.podcast Sherry's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moneymindsetcoaching","meta_description":"Ever kept a secret tally of what your partner owes you? Or have your partner agree to something and then not hold up their end of the agreement? This week…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":1031,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/mind-money-a-podcast-all-about-money-and-adhd-6847957/episodes/we-react-to-a-reddit-aita-about-splitting-money-with-your-partner-ep-124/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/mind-money-a-podcast-all-about-money-and-adhd-6847957/we-react-to-a-reddit-aita-about-splitting-money-with-your-partner-ep-124.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}