{"podcast":{"title":"Marriage Therapy Radio","slug":"marriage-therapy-radio-716729","podcast_index_feed_id":716729,"rss_url":"https://rss.art19.com/marriage-therapy-radio","website_url":"https://art19.com/shows/marriage-therapy-radio","image_url":"https://content.production.cdn.art19.com/images/73/05/66/00/73056600-70e5-4ac5-a567-c66dc00415b3/f16716c292d04172eddbd3d55a6bbf82edff468857593764be3ee90b739efcc599e2c074f31cefac2fee7cb5e52330967084efdc2ed8d93e27dc789dbc2f189f.jpeg","author":"MTR","episode_count":432,"summary":"Look... every couple struggles. You fight too much; you're bored; sex is either okay (or rare); maybe you're even considering divorce. OR... maybe your marriage is actually pretty good, but you want to go deeper. In this podcast, straight-talking marriage therapist Zach Brittle tackle the most common complaints virtually every marriage experience. Along the way, they reveal the science behind strong relationships and talk about what's really going on for couples. Topics include conflict, communication, compatibility, money, sex, in-laws, infidelity, time-management, future dreams, and more. If you want relief? A deeper connection? A new way forward...? Then you've got to find out what's REALLY going on in your marriage. That's what this podcast is about. You can learn more about Zach, and his alternatives to traditional therapy at marriagetherapyradio.com .","last_synced_at":"2026-07-07T16:22:53.819472+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/marriage-therapy-radio-716729"},"episode":{"title":"Ep 432 Kings, Queens, and the Chessboard of Marriage w/A.D and Courtney","slug":"ep-432-kings-queens-and-the-chessboard-of-marriage-w-a-d-and-courtney","published_at":"2026-07-07T07:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/marriage-therapy-radio-716729/ep-432-kings-queens-and-the-chessboard-of-marriage-w-a-d-and-courtney","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/marriage-therapy-radio-716729","url":"https://marriagetherapyradio.com/2026/07/07/ep-432-kings-queens-and-the-chessboard-of-marriage-w-a-d-and-courtney/","audio_url":"https://rss.art19.com/episodes/2e299369-0aad-4ff5-be59-3c874888df94.mp3?rss_browser=BAhJIg90cmFuc2NyaWJyBjoGRVQ%3D--952c5701c84ad333c69d5faa668f8177091704f0","summary":"Zach sits down with married couple A.D. and Courtney, who met on their first day at the University of North Texas and have been together, on and off, for over a decade. A.D. runs a coaching brand built around helping men value themselves inside marriage, and Courtney works in a corporate hybrid role while raising their three kids. Zach opens by asking what makes them tick, and gets a lot more than a love story. What follows is a conversation about inherited patterns, the cost of chasing validation, and what happens when two people in the same marriage see the same dynamic completely differently. A.D. traces his approach to relationships back to a chaotic, unstable childhood and a mother whose love felt conditional on performance. He built a framework he calls relationship mathematics, arguing that in any couple, one partner is always the pursuer and one is the pursued, and that most men undervalue themselves in ways that show up as resentment, moodiness, or letting a partner speak to them poorly. Courtney pushes back in real time, particularly on his claim that women need chaos to feel fulfilled. She also brings a sharper account of their two rounds of couples therapy, describing what it felt like to sit across from a therapist who did not stay neutral. What makes this one land is the disagreement itself. A.D. and Courtney do not perform a united front. They correct each other, laugh at each other's memory of their own meet cute, and land in different places on some of the biggest ideas in the episode. Listeners get a real look at how one couple negotiates whose theory of the relationship actually holds up, and why that negotiation might matter more than either theory on its own. Key Takeaways A man who does not value himself cannot be treated better than he treats him…","meta_description":"Zach sits down with married couple A.D. and Courtney, who met on their first day at the University of North Texas and have been together, on and off, for…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2994,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/marriage-therapy-radio-716729/episodes/ep-432-kings-queens-and-the-chessboard-of-marriage-w-a-d-and-courtney/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/marriage-therapy-radio-716729/ep-432-kings-queens-and-the-chessboard-of-marriage-w-a-d-and-courtney.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}