{"podcast":{"title":"Lights On with Carl Lentz","slug":"lights-on-with-carl-lentz-6927795","podcast_index_feed_id":6927795,"rss_url":"https://rss.art19.com/lights-on-with-carl-lentz","website_url":"https://art19.com/shows/lights-on-with-carl-lentz","image_url":"https://content.production.cdn.art19.com/images/5b/64/0c/f2/5b640cf2-4e85-4c8f-843c-cea83efe4ce5/61b4e9f49ec24f27d4601374c0a37fcd8bc0f9cd5fb5cce410765f7cc703ff2b069875f10baf249f82c32d5d545b41bff021493f4c5ad5fbace6d56c7ab1bb75.jpeg","author":"B-Side","episode_count":105,"summary":"Lights On with Carl Lentz is exactly what this show is. Carl Lentz is turning on the lights in his own life, & giving people space to do the same. We will lead with vulnerability, & have open conversations to bring light to the inner darkness in our lives. Turn on the lights with us!","last_synced_at":"2026-07-21T04:18:16.689075+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/lights-on-with-carl-lentz-6927795"},"episode":{"title":"I Love My Husband But I Am Not Attracted To Him","slug":"i-love-my-husband-but-i-am-not-attracted-to-him","published_at":"2026-03-04T01:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/lights-on-with-carl-lentz-6927795/i-love-my-husband-but-i-am-not-attracted-to-him","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/lights-on-with-carl-lentz-6927795","url":"https://s.gum.fm/s-6750d39b27f9d571b5016e8c/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/rss.art19.com/episodes/db5e6452-14d5-4f9d-9253-6173c65f8e39.mp3?rss_browser=BAhJIg90cmFuc2NyaWJyBjoGRVQ%3D--952c5701c84ad333c69d5faa668f8177091704f0","audio_url":"https://s.gum.fm/s-6750d39b27f9d571b5016e8c/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/rss.art19.com/episodes/db5e6452-14d5-4f9d-9253-6173c65f8e39.mp3?rss_browser=BAhJIg90cmFuc2NyaWJyBjoGRVQ%3D--952c5701c84ad333c69d5faa668f8177091704f0","summary":"Get our new book Overcoming Infidelity: 10 Conversations to Help Heal the Hurt here: - Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1668230496 - Barnes and Noble: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/overcoming-infidelity-carl-lentz/1149403061?ean=9781668230510 - Simon and Schuster: https://www.simonandschuster.com.au/books/Overcoming-Infidelity/Carl-Lentz/9781668230510 --- Want to submit questions? Email us at hello@carlandlaura.com --- A listener writes in about something she has never fully admitted before. She was never physically attracted to her husband. She chose him because he loved Jesus and she believed he would be a good husband and father. They have never had a good sex life. And now, after his infidelity, the attraction is completely gone and she does not know where to go from here. Carl and Laura break down the two pillars that build genuine sexual attraction, security and mystery, and explain exactly how infidelity destroys both. Carl shares why your wife's nervous system is a direct mirror of your tone and consistency over time. Laura walks through her four-question matrix for identifying exactly why attraction is gone, because the reason determines the path. From the difference between companionate love and erotic love, to why admiration is the most underrated on-ramp to desire, this episode delivers the kind of counsel most people cannot find anywhere else. This episode will challenge anyone who has ever confused being a good person with being a desirable partner. --- Follow Carl at: https://www.instagram.com/carllentz/ Follow Laura at: https://www.instagram.com/lauralentz/ ---- Supported by God Behind Bars - https://godbehindbars.com Supported by Plana - https://plana.org/ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art1…","meta_description":"Get our new book Overcoming Infidelity: 10 Conversations to Help Heal the Hurt here: - Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1668230496 - Barnes and Noble: ht…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2404,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/lights-on-with-carl-lentz-6927795/episodes/i-love-my-husband-but-i-am-not-attracted-to-him/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/lights-on-with-carl-lentz-6927795/i-love-my-husband-but-i-am-not-attracted-to-him.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}