{"podcast":{"title":"Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice","slug":"let-s-get-vulnerable-relationship-and-dating-advice-479018","podcast_index_feed_id":479018,"rss_url":"https://feeds.captivate.fm/letsgetvulnerable/","website_url":"https://www.drmorgancoaching.com","image_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/b2869cab-87ff-4c92-ac5b-f73bc454ffef/zDS1cYhXushj2EgKP2MuLTjO.jpg","author":"Dr. Morgan Anderson","episode_count":702,"summary":"Are you ready to take the mystery out of having great relationships and to gain the knowledge you need to step confidently into the next level of your life? Welcome to the Let’s Get Vulnerable podcast where your host, Dr. Morgan Anderson, gives you real talk on all things dating, relationships, and sex. Dr. Morgan is a relationship coach, psychologist and creator of the E.S.L relationship method. She brings humor, truth and knowledge to the complex world of dating and relationships. Podcast episodes will provide you with tangible strategies that you can implement immediately to improve your life and attract the exact relationship you desire. Episodes will feature expert advice from your host and psychologist, Dr. Morgan Anderson, interviews with incredible people offering you their stories and wisdom, and LIVE coaching sessions where you will have an exclusive glimpse into the growth process as it is unfolding. Episodes are recorded in a live format to give you the feel of a live talk show; episodes are non-scripted and unedited. The content of the episodes is bound to make you laugh, cry, improve your relationships and go confidently after your dreams like never before. So what a…","last_synced_at":"2026-09-15T00:18:24.166555+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/let-s-get-vulnerable-relationship-and-dating-advice-479018"},"episode":{"title":"EP 683: Why Reassurance Doesn't Always Work, Even When It's Given","slug":"ep-683-why-reassurance-doesn-t-always-work-even-when-it-s-given","published_at":"2026-09-07T11:30:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/let-s-get-vulnerable-relationship-and-dating-advice-479018/ep-683-why-reassurance-doesn-t-always-work-even-when-it-s-given","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/let-s-get-vulnerable-relationship-and-dating-advice-479018","url":"https://www.drmorgancoaching.com","audio_url":"https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/564938f9-10fd-4675-8611-85a1b2c905f7.mp3","summary":"Reassurance isn't the problem. The wrong kind of reassurance is. If you've ever heard \"I'm not leaving\" or \"we're fine\" and felt your nervous system stay exactly as anxious as it was five minutes ago, this episode is for you. Part 3 of Attachment Theory Got an Upgrade is diving into the research on why reassurance sometimes calms us down and sometimes completely misses the mark. I'm breaking down what a massive systematic review found about partner support and attachment insecurity, and why the answer isn't \"more reassurance\", it's the right kind, given the right way, to a partner who's actually able to receive it. Inside the Episode: The surprising research finding that reassurance doesn't work the way you'd expect for most people, and what actually determines whether it lands The real-life examples of tailored vs. untailored reassurance (including the moment with my husband and a hot shower that fixes everything, apparently) The one caveat I need you to hear before you convince yourself you \"just need to communicate better\", because sometimes it's not an attachment wound, it's a red flag You deserve a love that feels safe without you having to ask for it seventeen different ways. And healing that starts with understanding your own patterns first. Ready to build the self-trust that makes reassurance actually land? Start with my free Identity Reset, a simple daily practice to help you show up as your most secure self, one day at a time: Grab the Identity Reset today! P.S. If you're ready to go deeper and do this healing work with real support, applications for my VIP 1:1 Coaching Program are open. This is where we get into your specific patterns, your specific relationship, and build the kind of security that doesn't depend on anyone else's behavior. Click Here to Apply","meta_description":"Reassurance isn't the problem. The wrong kind of reassurance is. 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