{"podcast":{"title":"Ladies, We Need To Talk","slug":"ladies-we-need-to-talk-636876","podcast_index_feed_id":636876,"rss_url":"https://www.abc.net.au/feeds/8804158/podcast.xml","website_url":"https://www.abc.net.au/listen/programs/ladies-we-need-to-talk/","image_url":"https://live-production.wcms.abc-cdn.net.au/6b7d745b12b2eabe6e531398019bf065.jpg?src","author":"ABC Australia","episode_count":250,"summary":"Ladies, We Need to Talk goes deep on the women's health and relationship issues that are setting your group chat on fire. Come hang with the fabulous Yumi Stynes as she takes a candid, non-judgemental and often hilarious look at the deeply personal stuff that's hard to bring up, even with your closest mates. You'll meet incredible experts to help you improve your wellness, manage the mental load; survive break-ups and prioritise your mental health. With sensitivity, personal stories from real women, and serious smarts, this show is for women who feel the squeeze between work, their private life, and their pelvic floor. Get in touch with episode ideas, feedback, or just say hi! Ladies@abc.net.au","last_synced_at":"2026-09-15T06:22:20.531056+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/ladies-we-need-to-talk-636876"},"episode":{"title":"\"I wish I'd never had them\": the pain of regretting kids","slug":"i-wish-i-d-never-had-them-the-pain-of-regretting-kids","published_at":"2026-08-17T16:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/ladies-we-need-to-talk-636876/i-wish-i-d-never-had-them-the-pain-of-regretting-kids","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/ladies-we-need-to-talk-636876","url":"https://www.abc.net.au/listen/programs/ladies-we-need-to-talk/mothers-parents-who-regret-having-children/107032798","audio_url":"https://mediacore-live-production.akamaized.net/audio/02/nj/Z/1p.mp3","summary":"Having children is one of the most rewarding and meaningful things we can do. But what if you wish you'd never become a parent? For mothers especially, the taboo of admitting they regret their children can be incredibly lonely. Many carry their grief, loss of identity and exhaustion in silence. Yumi Stynes gets a rare window into the lives of people who love their children but admit that if they could go back in time, they'd make a different choice. Featured in this episode: Ella Reed, sociologist at Monash University researching maternal regret This episode will answer questions like: What does it feel like to regret having kids? Why do some parents regret having children? Where do you get help if you’re struggling as a parent? How does regretting children impact a romantic relationship? Why is maternal regret so taboo? What to listen to next: \"Traded a husband for a bestie\" Why these mums moved in together Worst ever dates, with Alita Brydon The grief no parent expects What to read next: Empty-nesters on how they 'fill the void' left by children Women on being in a sexless marriage and tips for reconnecting These grieving mothers want you to say their babies' names This episode contains references to motherhood, parenting, mothering, regret, anxiety, depression, suffering, family, mental load, support, relationships, romance.","meta_description":"Having children is one of the most rewarding and meaningful things we can do. But what if you wish you'd never become a parent? For mothers especially, th…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":1800,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/ladies-we-need-to-talk-636876/episodes/i-wish-i-d-never-had-them-the-pain-of-regretting-kids/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/ladies-we-need-to-talk-636876/i-wish-i-d-never-had-them-the-pain-of-regretting-kids.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}