{"podcast":{"title":"Know Your Children with Rav Shlomo Katz","slug":"know-your-children-with-rav-shlomo-katz-7478156","podcast_index_feed_id":7478156,"rss_url":"https://feeds.transistor.fm/know-your-children-with-rav-shlomo-katz","website_url":"http://RavShlomoKatz.com","image_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/Gsqc5kgoRQpq-1ZVZ9vzbybx6O2pd0g4Ktg5tMDtRm0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8yYTUw/ODM2ZTE4ZTk5ZWI0/OTFhZTUwYmNkNzli/Y2RlZC5wbmc.jpg","author":"Rav Shlomo Katz","episode_count":22,"summary":"“Know Your Children with Rav Shlomo Katz” is a series about the everyday holy work of raising children with heart, patience, and honesty. Join Rav Shlomo in learning from the sefer Da Et Yeladecha by Rav Itamar Shwartz, author of Bilvavi Mishkan Evneh, and explore how Torah and Chazal guide us in building a healthy, loving connection between parent and child. This isn’t about perfect techniques or quick fixes. It’s about creating a foundation of truth, learning to really listen, and finding the right “funnel” so that what we want to give actually reaches our children. Each shiur is meant to be practical, gentle, and encouraging, and something you can take home and live with.","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/know-your-children-with-rav-shlomo-katz-7478156"},"episode":{"title":"21. Parenting Based on the First Word of the Ten Commandments","slug":"21-parenting-based-on-the-first-word-of-the-ten-commandments","published_at":"2026-05-24T10:36:50+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/know-your-children-with-rav-shlomo-katz-7478156/21-parenting-based-on-the-first-word-of-the-ten-commandments","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/know-your-children-with-rav-shlomo-katz-7478156","url":"https://share.transistor.fm/s/84389012","audio_url":"https://media.transistor.fm/84389012/4b7998f4.mp3","summary":"Rav Shlomo Katz and the women of Shirat David explore the Gemara’s teaching that “Anochi” means: “Ana Nafshi Kesavis Yehavis” — “I gave over My soul.” From there, he opens a deeply practical conversation about what our children are actually receiving from us every day. Are we only giving them food, clothing, routines, and structure… or are we giving them our hearts within those things too? Through stories, Torah, and honest reflection, this episode reframes the entire relationship between physical caregiving and emotional connection, and asks what it means to build a home where love is truly felt — not just assumed. ---------- For more Shuirim and Music from Rav Shlomo Katz, visit: https://ravshlomokatz.com Join Rav Shlomo Katz's WhatsApp Community: https://chat.whatsapp.com/KHKOhhPaeHx5Kb74WL9L9a?mode=ems_copy_t CHAPTERS 00:00 Opening Greetings and Sponsorship Acknowledgments 01:18 Unrealistic Expectations for Children’s Emotional Growth 02:48 Integrating Feelings into Our Industrial Lifestyle 04:13 Lawsuit Over Being Brought Into the World 06:42 Giving Our Soul Through Everyday Acts 09:12 Why Are Children Born Completely Helpless? 16:17 Embedding Love Into Daily Actions 21:24 Limits of What We Can Actually Give 22:59 A Potato with a Heart Metaphor 24:01 Putting Heart Into Everyday Gifts 25:05 The Verse About Guiding a Child 27:15 Merging Love with Physical Provision 28:39 Love in the Simple School Sandwich 30:40 Why God’s Soul in the Torah Matters 32:34 Giving Gifts with a Good Eye 34:24 Integrating Soul When Providing Basics 36:42 Balancing Effort and Emotional Connection 46:08 Adam’s Need for Life Mirrors God’s Gift to Us 47:58 Closing Blessing and Encouragement for the Week","meta_description":"Rav Shlomo Katz and the women of Shirat David explore the Gemara’s teaching that “Anochi” means: “Ana Nafshi Kesavis Yehavis” — “I gave over My soul.” Fro…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2885,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/know-your-children-with-rav-shlomo-katz-7478156/episodes/21-parenting-based-on-the-first-word-of-the-ten-commandments/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/know-your-children-with-rav-shlomo-katz-7478156/21-parenting-based-on-the-first-word-of-the-ten-commandments.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}