{"podcast":{"title":"Know Your Children with Rav Shlomo Katz","slug":"know-your-children-with-rav-shlomo-katz-7478156","podcast_index_feed_id":7478156,"rss_url":"https://feeds.transistor.fm/know-your-children-with-rav-shlomo-katz","website_url":"http://RavShlomoKatz.com","image_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/Gsqc5kgoRQpq-1ZVZ9vzbybx6O2pd0g4Ktg5tMDtRm0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8yYTUw/ODM2ZTE4ZTk5ZWI0/OTFhZTUwYmNkNzli/Y2RlZC5wbmc.jpg","author":"Rav Shlomo Katz","episode_count":22,"summary":"“Know Your Children with Rav Shlomo Katz” is a series about the everyday holy work of raising children with heart, patience, and honesty. Join Rav Shlomo in learning from the sefer Da Et Yeladecha by Rav Itamar Shwartz, author of Bilvavi Mishkan Evneh, and explore how Torah and Chazal guide us in building a healthy, loving connection between parent and child. This isn’t about perfect techniques or quick fixes. It’s about creating a foundation of truth, learning to really listen, and finding the right “funnel” so that what we want to give actually reaches our children. Each shiur is meant to be practical, gentle, and encouraging, and something you can take home and live with.","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/know-your-children-with-rav-shlomo-katz-7478156"},"episode":{"title":"2. Can’t Have Holes in the Pipeline","slug":"2-can-t-have-holes-in-the-pipeline","published_at":"2025-09-14T13:21:37+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/know-your-children-with-rav-shlomo-katz-7478156/2-can-t-have-holes-in-the-pipeline","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/know-your-children-with-rav-shlomo-katz-7478156","url":"https://share.transistor.fm/s/aafd8a4e","audio_url":"https://media.transistor.fm/aafd8a4e/d3066e06.mp3","summary":"In this week’s shiur, Rav Shlomo Katz takes last week’s funnel and makes it practical. It’s not enough to have powerful Torah and holy intentions—if the צינור, the pipeline between parent and child, has leaks, what we’re trying to pour in never really arrives. Together we learn: The bridge before the message: why “content of chinuch” is stage two, and stage one is building a genuine bridge of trust and safety. Two channels that actually land: ma’aseh (personal example lived with simchah) and dibbur (speaking in a way that can be received— be’ofen hamitkabel ). Age-gap wisdom: how to match language to a child’s kelî kibbul (capacity), and why over-pouring causes shut-down. Emet, Simchah, Savlanut: the core middot that seal the leaks—humility to listen, honesty to live what we say, and patience to pace what we give. From teaching to mesirah : “Moshe kibel… umesarah l’Yehoshua”—chinuch is not lecturing; it’s transmitting, intact, heart to heart. A tefillah approach: why we daven while we learn parenting Torah, so the words don’t stay ideas—they become life. Practical takeaways: Identify one “leak” in your pipeline (tone, timing, vocabulary, pace) and patch it this week. Share one value in child-level language and model it with a small, joyful action before you explain it. End the day with a 30-second tefillah for the bridge between you and each child. ---------- For more Shuirim and Music from Rav Shlomo Katz, visit: https://ravshlomokatz.com Join Rav Shlomo Katz's WhatsApp Community: https://chat.whatsapp.com/KHKOhhPaeHx5Kb74WL9L9a?mode=ems_copy_t","meta_description":"In this week’s shiur, Rav Shlomo Katz takes last week’s funnel and makes it practical. It’s not enough to have powerful Torah and holy intentions—if the צ…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":3467,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/know-your-children-with-rav-shlomo-katz-7478156/episodes/2-can-t-have-holes-in-the-pipeline/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/know-your-children-with-rav-shlomo-katz-7478156/2-can-t-have-holes-in-the-pipeline.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}