{"podcast":{"title":"Keep Talking","slug":"keep-talking-1331245","podcast_index_feed_id":1331245,"rss_url":"https://media.rss.com/humans/feed.xml","website_url":"https://rss.com/podcasts/humans","image_url":"https://media.rss.com/humans/20210520_005222_a8e19a4cd6d9a7bc6e33dc39aa33e2b3.jpg","author":"Dan Riley","episode_count":155,"summary":"\"Keep Talking\" exists to have conversations that might help to make a better society and a better culture. I believe that each guest has important information and stories to make public. And it's something that I want to share.","last_synced_at":"2026-06-20T02:20:25.098457+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/keep-talking-1331245"},"episode":{"title":"Episode 139: Nick Pollard - The Problem With People-Pleasing","slug":"episode-139-nick-pollard-the-problem-with-people-pleasing","published_at":"2025-01-24T10:00:10+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/keep-talking-1331245/episode-139-nick-pollard-the-problem-with-people-pleasing","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/keep-talking-1331245","url":"https://rss.com/podcasts/humans/1860141","audio_url":"https://content.rss.com/episodes/14586/1860141/humans/2025_01_22_16_14_30_3c7dd96e-cfe0-4eb6-a5de-3f012e98d515.mp3","summary":"Nick Pollard, \"The People Displeaser,\" is a speaker and life coach who advocates for honest, authentic living through mindful boundaries, free of people-pleasing. ------------ Book Dan to do an interview or a meeting ------------ Keep Talking Substack Spotify Apple Podcasts Social media and all episodes ------------ Support via Venmo Support on Substack Support on Patreon ------------ (00:00) Intro (01:00) When Nick's was homicidal and suicidal (04:09) Nick's father (09:10) How Nick got his life together (18:08) Why Nick focuses on people-pleasing (23:25) Symptoms of a people-pleaser (26:44) Why do people become people-pleasers? (31:23) Your rules for life and a personal bill of rights (37:23) Establishing personal boundaries (42:39) Confronting fear and quotes from Jim Hollis (49:16) People-pleasers often have few same-sex friends (57:11) When should former people-pleasers leave relationships? (01:09:15) Nick's relationship deal-breakers","meta_description":"Nick Pollard, \"The People Displeaser,\" is a speaker and life coach who advocates for honest, authentic living through mindful boundaries, free of people-p…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":4378,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/keep-talking-1331245/episodes/episode-139-nick-pollard-the-problem-with-people-pleasing/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/keep-talking-1331245/episode-139-nick-pollard-the-problem-with-people-pleasing.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}