{"podcast":{"title":"Just Ask Her - Dating Advice for Single Men","slug":"just-ask-her-dating-advice-for-single-men-7118757","podcast_index_feed_id":7118757,"rss_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/e8016c68/podcast/rss","website_url":"https://www.skool.com/dating/about","image_url":"https://d3t3ozftmdmh3i.cloudfront.net/staging/podcast_uploaded_nologo/38824074/38824074-1745801198308-2d55bef082fc5.jpg","author":"Hosted by Gracie Pleschourt — Dating Coach + Confidence Expert for Men","episode_count":79,"summary":"Honest dating advice for single men from two women. Dating expert Gracie Pleschourt (@datingwithgracie on IG) and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt break down real dating questions, real struggles, and what actually works in modern dating. Each week, they dive into listener-submitted questions about their toughest dating challenges and deliver unfiltered, constructive feedback. Submit yours here: https://forms.gle/34JLMADMcxhqdb7X7","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/just-ask-her-dating-advice-for-single-men-7118757"},"episode":{"title":"Why Men Freeze in Dating (And How to Build Real Confidence) (Ep. 70)","slug":"why-men-freeze-in-dating-and-how-to-build-real-confidence-ep-70","published_at":"2026-04-01T23:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/just-ask-her-dating-advice-for-single-men-7118757/why-men-freeze-in-dating-and-how-to-build-real-confidence-ep-70","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/just-ask-her-dating-advice-for-single-men-7118757","url":"https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/gracie-pleschourt5/episodes/Why-Men-Freeze-in-Dating-And-How-to-Build-Real-Confidence-Ep--70-e3h8aot","audio_url":"https://traffic.megaphone.fm/APO1079224013.mp3","summary":"If you freeze up around women you’re attracted to, this episode of Just Ask Her breaks down why it happens and how to handle it. Gracie and Tracy share practical dating advice for men on nervous-system regulation, self-trust, first-date conversation, and building real connection without trying to be perfect. This episode is for single men who overthink, go blank in the moment, or feel intense pressure to say the “right” thing. Instead of giving you scripts to memorize, they focus on what actually helps: smaller goals, more reps, better presence, and less performance. They also unpack a complicated real-life dating scenario involving values, guilt, and emotional honesty, then close with a discussion on quality first-date topics and how to create stronger connection through better questions. Book Recommendation: Self-Made Man Dating Journal - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F9B7M5B3?th=1 Use Coupon SMMAN20OFF when purchasing Journal for 20% off. Submission Form: https://forms.gle/e7LTvCkT1fhkFQEF8 Time Stamps / Chapters: 00:00 Attraction isn’t built on performance 00:24 Intro: dating confidence for single men 01:03 Listener question: “I freeze around women I like” 02:20 Separate the facts from the story 05:25 Why freezing is your brain trying to protect you 08:20 Reframing nervousness and shrinking the goal 12:49 Practice reps and micro-exposure in daily life 15:01 Presence vs. performance in attraction 18:08 Storytime: the storytelling event and public-speaking nerves 23:01 Submission two: dating someone still married in memory care 27:35 Values, guilt, and honest communication 35:08 Instagram question: quality first-date topics 39:38 The 3 C’s: compliment, connect, contrast 46:12 Should politics and religion come up on a first date? Hashtags: #DatingAdviceForMen #FirstDate…","meta_description":"If you freeze up around women you’re attracted to, this episode of Just Ask Her breaks down why it happens and how to handle it. Gracie and Tracy share pr…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":3147,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/just-ask-her-dating-advice-for-single-men-7118757/episodes/why-men-freeze-in-dating-and-how-to-build-real-confidence-ep-70/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/just-ask-her-dating-advice-for-single-men-7118757/why-men-freeze-in-dating-and-how-to-build-real-confidence-ep-70.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}