{"podcast":{"title":"Just Ask Her - Dating Advice for Single Men","slug":"just-ask-her-dating-advice-for-single-men-7118757","podcast_index_feed_id":7118757,"rss_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/e8016c68/podcast/rss","website_url":"https://www.skool.com/dating/about","image_url":"https://d3t3ozftmdmh3i.cloudfront.net/staging/podcast_uploaded_nologo/38824074/38824074-1745801198308-2d55bef082fc5.jpg","author":"Hosted by Gracie Pleschourt — Dating Coach + Confidence Expert for Men","episode_count":79,"summary":"Honest dating advice for single men from two women. Dating expert Gracie Pleschourt (@datingwithgracie on IG) and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt break down real dating questions, real struggles, and what actually works in modern dating. Each week, they dive into listener-submitted questions about their toughest dating challenges and deliver unfiltered, constructive feedback. Submit yours here: https://forms.gle/34JLMADMcxhqdb7X7","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/just-ask-her-dating-advice-for-single-men-7118757"},"episode":{"title":"What “Not Ready for a Relationship” Really Means (Ep. 69)","slug":"what-not-ready-for-a-relationship-really-means-ep-69","published_at":"2026-03-25T11:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/just-ask-her-dating-advice-for-single-men-7118757/what-not-ready-for-a-relationship-really-means-ep-69","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/just-ask-her-dating-advice-for-single-men-7118757","url":"https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/gracie-pleschourt5/episodes/What-Not-Ready-for-a-Relationship-Really-Means-Ep--69-e3gtrb3","audio_url":"https://traffic.megaphone.fm/APO5957041143.mp3","summary":"If she says she’s “not ready for a relationship,” what does that actually mean—and what should you do next? This episode breaks down one of the most confusing dating signals men face. Gracie and Tracy unpack real listener submissions to explain why waiting, hoping, or trying to “time it right” often keeps you stuck. You’ll learn how to interpret mixed signals clearly, protect your standards, and stop over-investing in situations that aren’t aligned. This episode is for men who want clarity, confidence, and control in their dating lives—without second-guessing every interaction. Time Stamps / Chapters: 00:00 Why “not ready for a relationship” isn’t what you think 00:32 Intro + episode overview 03:48 Listener submission: sudden change after 2 dates 07:12 Is it timing or loss of attraction? 09:18 Why “right person, wrong time” is misleading 10:54 The danger of hope in dating 14:15 Why confusion keeps you stuck 15:20 Submission #2: emotional availability vs healing 20:57 The truth behind “I’m not ready right now” 22:12 Are you unconsciously trying to earn the relationship? 24:04 Processing rejection vs holding onto hope 27:01 When patience becomes self-abandonment 29:45 Submission #3: dating with a disability 34:59 How to communicate it confidently 38:24 Final takeaways + outro Self-Made Man Dating Journal - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F9B7M5B3?th=1 Use Coupon SMMAN20OFF when purchasing Journal for 20% off. Submission Form: https://forms.gle/e7LTvCkT1fhkFQEF8 #datingadviceformen #ModernDating #relationshipadvice Keywords: not ready for a relationship meaning dating advice for men mixed signals dating meaning how to move on from rejection emotional availability dating right person wrong time meaning dating mindset for men self abandonment in relationships how to stop overth…","meta_description":"If she says she’s “not ready for a relationship,” what does that actually mean—and what should you do next? This episode breaks down one of the most confu…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2326,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/just-ask-her-dating-advice-for-single-men-7118757/episodes/what-not-ready-for-a-relationship-really-means-ep-69/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/just-ask-her-dating-advice-for-single-men-7118757/what-not-ready-for-a-relationship-really-means-ep-69.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}