{"podcast":{"title":"Just Ask Her - Dating Advice for Single Men","slug":"just-ask-her-dating-advice-for-single-men-7118757","podcast_index_feed_id":7118757,"rss_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/e8016c68/podcast/rss","website_url":"https://www.skool.com/dating/about","image_url":"https://d3t3ozftmdmh3i.cloudfront.net/staging/podcast_uploaded_nologo/38824074/38824074-1745801198308-2d55bef082fc5.jpg","author":"Hosted by Gracie Pleschourt — Dating Coach + Confidence Expert for Men","episode_count":79,"summary":"Honest dating advice for single men from two women. Dating expert Gracie Pleschourt (@datingwithgracie on IG) and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt break down real dating questions, real struggles, and what actually works in modern dating. Each week, they dive into listener-submitted questions about their toughest dating challenges and deliver unfiltered, constructive feedback. Submit yours here: https://forms.gle/34JLMADMcxhqdb7X7","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/just-ask-her-dating-advice-for-single-men-7118757"},"episode":{"title":"Mixed Signals in Dating: Why It Feels Real (But Isn’t) (Ep. 71)","slug":"mixed-signals-in-dating-why-it-feels-real-but-isn-t-ep-71","published_at":"2026-04-08T11:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/just-ask-her-dating-advice-for-single-men-7118757/mixed-signals-in-dating-why-it-feels-real-but-isn-t-ep-71","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/just-ask-her-dating-advice-for-single-men-7118757","url":"https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/gracie-pleschourt5/episodes/Mixed-Signals-in-Dating-Why-It-Feels-Real-But-Isnt-Ep--71-e3hio9u","audio_url":"https://traffic.megaphone.fm/APO6303239184.mp3","summary":"Mixed signals in dating can leave you confused, frustrated, and questioning everything. In this episode of Just Ask Her, we break down why emotional intimacy doesn’t always mean romantic interest—and how to stop getting stuck in “almost relationships. ”If you’ve ever felt like things were going somewhere… only for it to fall apart, this episode will help you understand what actually happened—and how to move forward with confidence. We also dive into why early intensity can be misleading, how to avoid getting attached too fast, and what healthy pacing in dating actually looks like. Time Stamps / Chapters: 00:00 Future-tripping after great first dates 00:41 Intro to Just Ask Her 01:53 Listener story: Emotional intimacy vs friendship 03:16 Confusion: Mixed signals and “platonic” label 04:53 Key questions: grief, anger, and clarity 05:36 Are you always being evaluated in dating? 08:05 Why intimacy means different things to different people 09:18 Why you must communicate intentions early 11:16 Is it fair to feel “assessed”? 16:34 Why anger shows up after misalignment 18:48 Grieving what you thought it would be 21:21 When taking space is healthy 24:13 Second story: Long-distance and fast attachment 28:13 Peaks vs patterns in relationships 30:22 Why relationships take time to build 33:49 Stop fixing inconsistency—observe it 36:25 Future-tripping explained 39:14 Myth: “Love finds you when you stop looking” 44:41 Curiosity vs desperation in dating Self-Made Man Dating Journal - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F9B7M5B3?th=1 Use Coupon SMMAN20OFF when purchasing Journal for 20% off. Submission Form: https://forms.gle/e7LTvCkT1fhkFQEF8 #DatingAdvice #MixedSignals #ModernDating Keywords: mixed signals dating advice, emotional intimacy vs romantic interest, almost relationship meaning,…","meta_description":"Mixed signals in dating can leave you confused, frustrated, and questioning everything. In this episode of Just Ask Her, we break down why emotional intim…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2862,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/just-ask-her-dating-advice-for-single-men-7118757/episodes/mixed-signals-in-dating-why-it-feels-real-but-isn-t-ep-71/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/just-ask-her-dating-advice-for-single-men-7118757/mixed-signals-in-dating-why-it-feels-real-but-isn-t-ep-71.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}