{"podcast":{"title":"Inside The Mind Of An Addict","slug":"inside-the-mind-of-an-addict-6321418","podcast_index_feed_id":6321418,"rss_url":"https://app.kajabi.com/podcasts/2147512044/feed","website_url":"https://www.familyrecoveryacademy.online/podcasts/inside-the-mind-of-an-addict","image_url":"https://kajabi-storefronts-production.kajabi-cdn.com/kajabi-storefronts-production/file-uploads/site/126429/podcasts/2da1878-fe6f-5c18-274e-5cb02b3783a6_5_steps_ahead_.png","author":"Amber Hollingsworth","episode_count":162,"summary":"Master Addiction Counselor Amber Hollingsworth teaches you how to recover your loved one from addiction. You'll discover the secret to breaking through denial, finding your loved one's motivation, and helping them get their life back on track. New episodes are released every Thursday. For Additional Information and Resources visit our website: https://www.familyrecoveryacademy.online/","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/inside-the-mind-of-an-addict-6321418"},"episode":{"title":"Why Hating Yourself Won't Make You Sober","slug":"why-hating-yourself-won-t-make-you-sober","published_at":"2026-02-11T11:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/inside-the-mind-of-an-addict-6321418/why-hating-yourself-won-t-make-you-sober","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/inside-the-mind-of-an-addict-6321418","url":"https://www.familyrecoveryacademy.online/podcasts/inside-the-mind-of-an-addict/episodes/2149166988","audio_url":"https://app.kajabi.com/podcasts/medias/2149166988.mp3","summary":"Why Shame Keeps You Stuck in the Drinking Cycle (And What Actually Creates Change) You’ve probably heard that real change only happens after you hit rock bottom—that you have to feel enough shame and disgust with yourself to finally stop drinking. But what if that belief is actually keeping you stuck? In this episode, we challenge the idea that shame motivates recovery and explain how it often fuels the very cycle you're trying to escape. We break down the powerful psychological pattern known as the Drama Triangle , and how it keeps people trapped in cycles of self-blame, emotional pain, and substance use. When you drink, shame follows. That shame leads to self-hate. And self-hate creates the emotional discomfort that makes you want relief—often through drinking again. It becomes a self-perpetuating loop that has nothing to do with willpower and everything to do with identity. This episode explains why lasting recovery isn’t about forcing yourself to stop through guilt or discipline. Instead, it’s about stepping off the Drama Triangle entirely and becoming someone who no longer needs that cycle to cope, escape, or define themselves. Real change happens when you shift how you see yourself—not when you try to punish yourself into being different. If you’re ready to move beyond shame-based motivation and explore a strengths-based, identity-driven approach to recovery, this episode will show you a new path forward—one rooted in self-understanding, emotional freedom, and sustainable change. Resources and Support: Apply for 1-on-1 Recovery Coaching: https://www.familyrecoveryacademy.online/strengths-based-assessment   Learn More About Amber AI Coaching: https://www.familyrecoveryacademy.online/24-7-coaching-with-amber-ai   Motivation Support for Families in Denial:…","meta_description":"Why Shame Keeps You Stuck in the Drinking Cycle (And What Actually Creates Change) You’ve probably heard that real change only happens after you hit rock…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2260,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/inside-the-mind-of-an-addict-6321418/episodes/why-hating-yourself-won-t-make-you-sober/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/inside-the-mind-of-an-addict-6321418/why-hating-yourself-won-t-make-you-sober.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}