{"podcast":{"title":"Inside The Mind Of An Addict","slug":"inside-the-mind-of-an-addict-6321418","podcast_index_feed_id":6321418,"rss_url":"https://app.kajabi.com/podcasts/2147512044/feed","website_url":"https://www.familyrecoveryacademy.online/podcasts/inside-the-mind-of-an-addict","image_url":"https://kajabi-storefronts-production.kajabi-cdn.com/kajabi-storefronts-production/file-uploads/site/126429/podcasts/2da1878-fe6f-5c18-274e-5cb02b3783a6_5_steps_ahead_.png","author":"Amber Hollingsworth","episode_count":162,"summary":"Master Addiction Counselor Amber Hollingsworth teaches you how to recover your loved one from addiction. You'll discover the secret to breaking through denial, finding your loved one's motivation, and helping them get their life back on track. New episodes are released every Thursday. For Additional Information and Resources visit our website: https://www.familyrecoveryacademy.online/","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/inside-the-mind-of-an-addict-6321418"},"episode":{"title":"I Told My Wife to Go to Rehab, and People Are Telling Me I'm Part of the Problem","slug":"i-told-my-wife-to-go-to-rehab-and-people-are-telling-me-i-m-part-of-the-problem","published_at":"2026-05-13T05:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/inside-the-mind-of-an-addict-6321418/i-told-my-wife-to-go-to-rehab-and-people-are-telling-me-i-m-part-of-the-problem","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/inside-the-mind-of-an-addict-6321418","url":"https://www.familyrecoveryacademy.online/podcasts/inside-the-mind-of-an-addict/episodes/2149206429","audio_url":"https://app.kajabi.com/podcasts/medias/2149206429.mp3","summary":"In this episode, Amber breaks down two real Reddit stories from husbands who tried to talk to their wives about their drinking gently, carefully, and with good intentions, only to watch the conversations completely fall apart. The problem was not just what they said. It was what their words unintentionally threatened underneath the surface. Amber dives into the psychology behind why conversations about alcohol can go so wrong, even when someone is approaching the situation from a place of love and concern. Using the concept of self-verification theory, she explains why pointing out someone’s drinking problem can feel like attacking their identity, values, and sense of self. In many cases, the more evidence you bring, the more defensive the other person becomes. This episode breaks down where the Reddit commenters got it right and where they completely missed the deeper issue. Amber also walks through “The Nurse’s Husband” story and explains why the wife was not simply defending her drinking. She was defending the promise she had always made to herself about who she believed she was as a person, wife, and mother. You’ll also hear why phrases like “you’re going to hurt the baby” often land emotionally as “you’re a bad mother,” immediately triggering shame, fear, and defensiveness. If you have ever walked away from one of these conversations confused about how things escalated so quickly or feeling like somehow you became the problem, this episode will help you understand why. Most importantly, Amber explains what to do instead. You’ll learn how to approach difficult conversations in a way that lowers defensiveness, makes the truth easier to receive, and creates a better chance for honest reflection and real change. If you feel like you’re losing your mind trying to help…","meta_description":"In this episode, Amber breaks down two real Reddit stories from husbands who tried to talk to their wives about their drinking gently, carefully, and with…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":1663,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/inside-the-mind-of-an-addict-6321418/episodes/i-told-my-wife-to-go-to-rehab-and-people-are-telling-me-i-m-part-of-the-problem/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/inside-the-mind-of-an-addict-6321418/i-told-my-wife-to-go-to-rehab-and-people-are-telling-me-i-m-part-of-the-problem.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}