{"podcast":{"title":"In The Arena With DoorTwo","slug":"in-the-arena-with-doortwo-7549574","podcast_index_feed_id":7549574,"rss_url":"https://feeds.captivate.fm/in-the-arena-with-doortwo/","website_url":"https://doortwo.com/podcasts/in-the-arena/","image_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/9aeef3b0-0150-4b95-b973-50eee3a5c66d/Podcast-Artwork-Final-smaller.jpg","author":"DoorTwo","episode_count":21,"summary":"All growth starts with self-awareness. This isn’t just a podcast about leadership. It’s about the patterns that run us, the scripts we inherit, the beliefs we reinforce without even realizing it, and the habits that quietly hold us back. Most people lead not by design, but by default, from fear, from pain, from whatever's worked well enough... so far. But real impact for yourself, your team, your company, and your life, only happens when you do the deeper work. This is where we name the patterns, rewrite the scripts, and surface the beliefs that shape how you show up. Grounded in decades of behavioral science from thinkers like Litwin and Stringer, David McClelland, and Taibi Kahler, we help you build the capacity to live and lead differently. Join us In The Arena.","last_synced_at":"2026-07-24T00:19:21.734037+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/in-the-arena-with-doortwo-7549574"},"episode":{"title":"Stop Being Misunderstood - Intent, Behavior & Impact","slug":"stop-being-misunderstood-intent-behavior-impact","published_at":"2026-04-29T20:20:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/in-the-arena-with-doortwo-7549574/stop-being-misunderstood-intent-behavior-impact","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/in-the-arena-with-doortwo-7549574","url":"https://doortwo.com/podcasts/in-the-arena/","audio_url":"https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/42dcae55-400c-4fdd-8bb5-0d30ce096032.mp3","summary":"Most conflict doesn't start with bad intent. It starts with the gap between what you meant, what you did, and how someone else experienced it. In this episode, Shaun Dyke sits down with Stephanie Au to break down a framework called Intent → Behavior → Impact. They also cover why leaders walk away thinking \"that landed great\" while their teams walk away resentful, why \"advertising your intent\" changes everything, and how to take ownership of the felt experience you create at work and at home. In this conversation, you'll hear: • Why only about 10% of people effectively clarify intent and check for understanding, and why that gap is the one DoorTwo gets hired to fix • A CEO whose post-COVID return-to-work mandate was meant to drive engagement and instead drove badge monitoring, resentment, and disengagement • The exact language to \"advertise your intent\" before a hard conversation • How confirmation bias and fundamental attribution error trap leaders in a story they don't realize they're telling • Why this is a skill, along with the smallest, low-risk way to start practicing it this week If you've ever walked away from a conversation thinking, \"That's not what I meant,\" this one's for you. CHAPTERS 0:00 Cold open 0:30 Why this episode matters 2:03 Stephanie's engagement (and a $1,000 wedding invite) 3:52 The framework: Intent → Behavior → Impact 7:23 Case study: the return-to-work CEO who lost the room 12:18 Counsel for the sender and the receiver 14:20 How to actually \"advertise your intent\" 16:21 Parenting and the intent–impact gap 18:42 Why this is a skill, not a switch 20:10 Confirmation bias and the power-distance trap 22:13 Fundamental attribution error 25:30 A sender's playbook: verbal processing & advertising intent 27:32 The curse of knowledge: \"start small,…","meta_description":"Most conflict doesn't start with bad intent. It starts with the gap between what you meant, what you did, and how someone else experienced it. In this epi…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2093,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/in-the-arena-with-doortwo-7549574/episodes/stop-being-misunderstood-intent-behavior-impact/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/in-the-arena-with-doortwo-7549574/stop-being-misunderstood-intent-behavior-impact.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}