{"podcast":{"title":"How To Deal","slug":"how-to-deal-6351386","podcast_index_feed_id":6351386,"rss_url":"https://feeds.captivate.fm/attachmentnerd/","website_url":"https://www.attachmentnerd.com","image_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/e42cc46e-49c1-4f7b-929b-7f34b105df66/cover-optimized-with-logo.png","author":"Attachment Nerd","episode_count":34,"summary":"How To Deal is the podcast for parents who want to raise emotionally healthy kids in a world full of messy moments. Therapist and bestselling author Eli Harwood (aka The Attachment Nerd) brings you real stories, expert advice, and practical tools to build stronger relationships with your children—and yourself. Attachmentnerd.com","last_synced_at":"2026-07-18T02:21:30.497094+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-to-deal-6351386"},"episode":{"title":"How to Deal with Parental Stress (Scripts + Strategies) | Nerd Notes with Eli","slug":"how-to-deal-with-parental-stress-scripts-strategies-nerd-notes-with-eli","published_at":"2026-05-13T15:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-to-deal-6351386/how-to-deal-with-parental-stress-scripts-strategies-nerd-notes-with-eli","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-to-deal-6351386","url":"https://podcast.attachmentnerd.com/episode/how-to-deal-with-parental-stress-scripts-strategies-nerd-notes-with-eli","audio_url":"https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/63455643-f7c9-4ef7-b934-19863d77b495.mp3","summary":"Episode Summary Stress is universal — but how we respond to it isn't. In this solo episode, Eli Harwood (the Attachment Nerd) breaks down what stress actually is, why your personal history shapes your stress response, and how to manage it in a way that protects both your well-being and your relationship with your kids. From completing the stress cycle to talking to your children about fight-or-flight in real time, this episode is a practical, compassionate guide to becoming a more regulated — and more connected — parent. Key Takeaways Stress is both external and internal. The stressor is the event; the stress response is what happens in your body. You can influence both. Your attachment history shapes your reactivity. How your caregivers handled stress became your internal blueprint — but it can be rewritten. Pause, reflect, decide. Before reacting, notice the stressor, name your body's response, then consciously choose how you want to respond. Completing the stress cycle matters. The stress energy in your body needs to move through — via movement, venting, crying, or physical expression — or it accumulates. The \"F-it Bucket\" is a real strategy. Not every stressor deserves equal energy. Deliberately release the unnecessary ones. Witnesses reduce stress. Having people who say \"I see you, I get it\" is neurologically powerful — community is medicine. Talking to kids about stress teaches them to self-regulate. Simple scripts like \"I'm having a stress response in my body\" model emotional literacy your kids will internalize. Some stress is productive. The goal isn't zero stress — it's the right amount that motivates action without causing paralysis or chronic agitation. Resources Mentioned 📖 Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle by Emily Nagoski & Amelia Nago…","meta_description":"Episode Summary Stress is universal — but how we respond to it isn't. In this solo episode, Eli Harwood (the Attachment Nerd) breaks down what stress actu…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":1212,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/how-to-deal-6351386/episodes/how-to-deal-with-parental-stress-scripts-strategies-nerd-notes-with-eli/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-to-deal-6351386/how-to-deal-with-parental-stress-scripts-strategies-nerd-notes-with-eli.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}