{"podcast":{"title":"How To Deal","slug":"how-to-deal-6351386","podcast_index_feed_id":6351386,"rss_url":"https://feeds.captivate.fm/attachmentnerd/","website_url":"https://www.attachmentnerd.com","image_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/e42cc46e-49c1-4f7b-929b-7f34b105df66/cover-optimized-with-logo.png","author":"Attachment Nerd","episode_count":34,"summary":"How To Deal is the podcast for parents who want to raise emotionally healthy kids in a world full of messy moments. Therapist and bestselling author Eli Harwood (aka The Attachment Nerd) brings you real stories, expert advice, and practical tools to build stronger relationships with your children—and yourself. Attachmentnerd.com","last_synced_at":"2026-07-18T02:21:30.497094+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-to-deal-6351386"},"episode":{"title":"How To Deal With Big Kids and Bigger Feelings | with Alyssa Campbell","slug":"how-to-deal-with-big-kids-and-bigger-feelings-with-alyssa-campbell","published_at":"2026-01-18T15:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-to-deal-6351386/how-to-deal-with-big-kids-and-bigger-feelings-with-alyssa-campbell","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-to-deal-6351386","url":"https://podcast.attachmentnerd.com/episode/how-to-deal-with-big-kids-and-bigger-feelings-with-alyssa-campbell","audio_url":"https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/e624c679-f4bf-41b7-aea2-0212f95e5ce8.mp3","summary":"Your kid finally learned to regulate their emotions... and then they turned 8 and it all fell apart. Sound familiar? In this episode, Eli sits down with Alyssa Campbell —co-author of the New York Times bestseller Tiny Humans, Big Feelings and her new book Big Kids, Bigger Feelings —to unpack why the pre-teen years hit so differently (and why your biases might be making it worse). They dive into: Why that \"calm period\" around age 6-7 doesn't last (and what's actually happening in your kid's brain) How to parent when your sensory needs are completely opposite your child's The difference between entitlement and dysregulation (spoiler: it's usually the second one) Why \"attention-seeking\" behavior is actually a need, not a want A free tool to understand your (and your kid's) unique nervous system Whether you have neurotypical or neurodivergent kids, this conversation will change how you see those eye rolls, door slams, and \"attitudes.\" Resources mentioned: Take the free Sensory Quiz: seedquiz.com Big Kids, Bigger Feelings by Alyssa Campbell Tiny Humans, Big Feelings Learn more about Seed and Sew: Link Music by Gold Child - www.goldchildmusic.com","meta_description":"Your kid finally learned to regulate their emotions... and then they turned 8 and it all fell apart. Sound familiar? In this episode, Eli sits down with A…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2569,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/how-to-deal-6351386/episodes/how-to-deal-with-big-kids-and-bigger-feelings-with-alyssa-campbell/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/how-to-deal-6351386/how-to-deal-with-big-kids-and-bigger-feelings-with-alyssa-campbell.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}