{"podcast":{"title":"hot pursuit by AsianBossGirl","slug":"hot-pursuit-by-asianbossgirl-495622","podcast_index_feed_id":495622,"rss_url":"https://feeds.megaphone.fm/PDR7801703038","website_url":null,"image_url":"https://megaphone.imgix.net/podcasts/072ad28a-e35a-11eb-8f11-e79e9de6eb51/image/dcc482df09eaa96d68b47fb2c38d774b.png?ixlib=rails-4.3.1&max-w=3000&max-h=3000&fit=crop&auto=format,compress","author":"Emily, Madelyn, Jen","episode_count":463,"summary":"welcome to hot pursuit; a podcast about creating conversations where nothing is off limits hosted by three best friends Jen, Em, and Madelyn. this podcast is produced by AsianBossGirl. ever since the beloved ABG hosts Melody, Helen, and Janet took their hiatus, we decided there was a space to fill where individuals could continue vulnerable conversations about life, love, and friendship. we value digging deep, being unhinged, and stepping out courageously in topics of conversation that may be more taboo than your typical lunch conversation. join us as we continue the AsianBossGirl legacy with a podcast of our own. we desire to model friendship and vulnerability to our listeners while challenging ourselves to grow in self confidence, friendship, and authenticity. buckle up! it's gonna be a wild ride.","last_synced_at":"2026-07-13T20:20:37.426843+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/hot-pursuit-by-asianbossgirl-495622"},"episode":{"title":"we broke up","slug":"we-broke-up","published_at":"2025-11-18T11:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/hot-pursuit-by-asianbossgirl-495622/we-broke-up","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/hot-pursuit-by-asianbossgirl-495622","url":"https://pdst.fm/e/chrt.fm/track/47G541/traffic.megaphone.fm/ABG2348201446.mp3?updated=1769462602","audio_url":"https://pdst.fm/e/chrt.fm/track/47G541/traffic.megaphone.fm/ABG2348201446.mp3?updated=1769462602","summary":"sharing our past failed friendships, why they didn’t work, how we broke up, holding ourselves accountable, and what we could have done better. 0:00 bff means forever right? 4:40 when you have different expectations 6:52 when you’re ghosted 9:10 when you ghosted them 13:20 when it’s a slow fade 15:09 when you were the problem 23:13 the one that got away 29:40 are we bitter? 32:22 what would you say to them today? 35:04 how it affects other friendships 40:17 the heart longs for forever CONNECT WITH US Connect with us @thehotpursuitpod on Instagram/TikTok/Youtube. Email us at hello@thehotpursuitpod.com. Learn more at thehotpursuitpod.com. THE HOT PURSUIT PODCAST Hosted and written by: Jennifer Han, Emily Lin, and Madelyn Ong Produced by: Hot Pursuit Media and AsianBossGirl Edited by: Josh Jang Theme song: Shawn Halim Graphic art: Kelsey Cordutsky ig: @kcord0912 Motion graphics: Matt Ebling ig: @matt_ebling Special thanks: Travis Morningstar, Melody Cheng, Helen Wu Wang, Janet Wang, Josh Jang Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices","meta_description":"sharing our past failed friendships, why they didn’t work, how we broke up, holding ourselves accountable, and what we could have done better. 0:00 bff me…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2844,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/hot-pursuit-by-asianbossgirl-495622/episodes/we-broke-up/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/hot-pursuit-by-asianbossgirl-495622/we-broke-up.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}