{"podcast":{"title":"Hot and Unbothered","slug":"hot-and-unbothered-6798147","podcast_index_feed_id":6798147,"rss_url":"https://feeds.megaphone.fm/EERMB2102767917","website_url":"https://hot-unbothered.mn.co/landing","image_url":"https://megaphone.imgix.net/podcasts/74d1c5a0-d9d2-11f0-bf24-73d9e836c300/image/94af9be18c918c871eed5e8a04fd5013.jpg?ixlib=rails-4.3.1&max-w=3000&max-h=3000&fit=crop&auto=format,compress","author":"Brianna Gomez","episode_count":115,"summary":"Welcome to Hot and Unbothered, your go-to pod for becoming the hottest, highest version of yourself. Embody a magnetic it-girl mindset that fosters personal growth as we dive into all things from self love and confidence, to lifestyle and wellness tips. Hosted by Brianna Gomez, content creator/digital big sis who has amassed millions of views teaching women to achieve a high-vibrational energy and look/feel their best while doing it! New episodes every Friday.","last_synced_at":"2026-07-25T00:17:39.162406+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/hot-and-unbothered-6798147"},"episode":{"title":"How to Spot Fake Friends Before They Drain You: Outgrowing Toxic Friendships & Jealous People","slug":"how-to-spot-fake-friends-before-they-drain-you-outgrowing-toxic-friendships-jealous-people","published_at":"2026-03-06T14:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/hot-and-unbothered-6798147/how-to-spot-fake-friends-before-they-drain-you-outgrowing-toxic-friendships-jealous-people","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/hot-and-unbothered-6798147","url":"https://traffic.megaphone.fm/EERMB1829649288.mp3?updated=1772781829","audio_url":"https://traffic.megaphone.fm/EERMB1829649288.mp3?updated=1772781829","summary":"Friendship doesn’t automatically mean loyalty. You can see someone every day, tell them everything about your life, laugh together, grow up together — and still realize that the energy between you isn’t genuine. In this episode of Hot & Unbothered, your host Brianna Gomez talks about the subtle signs someone in your life might not truly be your friend. From cliques and exclusion to quiet resentment when you grow or change, sometimes the hardest truth is realizing that proximity doesn’t equal love. Most importantly, we talk about something that many people struggle with: having the courage to outgrow people and be alone for a while until you find friendships that actually feel aligned. Because not everyone who’s been in your life deserves a permanent place in it. Sometimes growth means choosing peace over proximity. The tool you NEED to stick to your goals this year: the ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠BECOMING HER PLANNER⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for the girlies who are serious about leveling up (made by your's truly!) Remember to rate the pod 5 stars & leave a review to be featured in next week's episode! Subscribe to my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube channel⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for more! Join our Hot & Unbothered besties⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ groupchat to hold each other accountable! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Tune in to learn how to unlock your highest, hottest, & HAPPIEST self and truly GLOW UP from the inside and out. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Stream Hot & Unbothered on ANY PLATFORM.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ LET’S BE FRIENDS ♡: Hot & Unbothered is on TikTok!:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…","meta_description":"Friendship doesn’t automatically mean loyalty. You can see someone every day, tell them everything about your life, laugh together, grow up together — and…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2490,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/hot-and-unbothered-6798147/episodes/how-to-spot-fake-friends-before-they-drain-you-outgrowing-toxic-friendships-jealous-people/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/hot-and-unbothered-6798147/how-to-spot-fake-friends-before-they-drain-you-outgrowing-toxic-friendships-jealous-people.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}