{"podcast":{"title":"Help Me Be Me","slug":"help-me-be-me-988954","podcast_index_feed_id":988954,"rss_url":"https://feeds.megaphone.fm/HSW9496253302","website_url":"https://www.yaywithme.com","image_url":"https://megaphone.imgix.net/podcasts/2fced5e8-b343-11eb-ad4c-33d8f23fa916/image/avatars-000524489418-o7ib31-t500x500.jpg?ixlib=rails-4.3.1&max-w=3000&max-h=3000&fit=crop&auto=format,compress","author":"Cloud10","episode_count":366,"summary":"Help Me Be Me is an emotional toolkit for creating positive change in yourself. I like to think of it as self-help for people who hate self-help. I'm Sarah May, coach/author/all-around happy person, and these are the tools that work for me in my life. For all of my offerings you can check out YayWithMe.com What I share on this show is my personal opinion. It's not a diagnosis for treatment or a substitute for professional help. If you're suffering, please reach out to your local emergency services or call 9-1-1. Find this podcast on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/sarahmayb","last_synced_at":"2026-07-18T08:21:06.969312+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/help-me-be-me-988954"},"episode":{"title":"Ep 272: What Healing Looks Like – Taking the You Out of It","slug":"ep-272-what-healing-looks-like-taking-the-you-out-of-it","published_at":"2026-03-27T22:47:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/help-me-be-me-988954/ep-272-what-healing-looks-like-taking-the-you-out-of-it","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/help-me-be-me-988954","url":"https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/clrtpod.com/m/mgln.ai/e/204/pscrb.fm/rss/p/traffic.megaphone.fm/CTL5164624987.mp3?updated=1774709525","audio_url":"https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/clrtpod.com/m/mgln.ai/e/204/pscrb.fm/rss/p/traffic.megaphone.fm/CTL5164624987.mp3?updated=1774709525","summary":"When you really know innately that it’s not about you, you feel immediate relief in the face of any attack. It’s one thing to be in that place of confidence, legitimately. It’s another to want to be there but still be in a process of healing your emotional baggage. This episode is really about understanding what it looks and feels like to be healed. It’s aimed at giving yourself grace, relief, context for where you are and why. So that you can let go of a little bit of self-blame and also re-orient toward where it is you want to go. Healing and safety look different at different ages. We may need to boundary our lives very differently depending on the part of ourselves we are trying to grow. This is about growing out of ego and a habit of taking things personally. It’s a lifelong process that takes conscious attention. To not take things personally is the key to so much relief in life: It changes what you say, what you do, what matters. How long fights last, how much pain you endure. How much loneliness and HURT you endure. When we come home to a knowledge that “I am good, therefore, I need nothing in validation from others,” we can skip so much suffering and deflect what others put onto us. I hope that you can validate a new part of yourself today… Sponsors: Betterhelp.com/helpmebeme - sign up and get 10% off your first month of therapy Monarch.com code HELPME for 50% off your first year Quince.com/helpme for free shipping and 365 day returns Wayfair.com to shop all things home Marleyspoon.com/offer/helpmebeme up to 25 FREE meals Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices","meta_description":"When you really know innately that it’s not about you, you feel immediate relief in the face of any attack. It’s one thing to be in that place of confiden…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":3471,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/help-me-be-me-988954/episodes/ep-272-what-healing-looks-like-taking-the-you-out-of-it/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/help-me-be-me-988954/ep-272-what-healing-looks-like-taking-the-you-out-of-it.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}