{"podcast":{"title":"Flying Free","slug":"flying-free-1045377","podcast_index_feed_id":1045377,"rss_url":"https://flyingfree.libsyn.com/rss","website_url":"https://flyingfreenow.com","image_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/L__5fewvckdX3n9JrmZKDHQfVMHxxEWWp8sVfqClimw/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8yN2M2/OGZlNTZkZDdkZTEw/ODMwNGMwMmQzMWJh/NmMwMi5wbmc.jpg","author":"Natalie Hoffman","episode_count":400,"summary":"Flying Free is a support resource for women of faith who need hope and healing from hidden emotional abuse, spiritual abuse, and narcissistic abuse. Because of misogynistic theology taught in controlling and spiritually abusive churches, many Christian women find themselves in destructive marriages where there is an uneven power dynamic. Male partners use their status as a husband to gain power and control over a woman’s mind, emotions, body, social life, finances, and more. When she tries to get help from her equally abusive church environment, she is betrayed and re-abused. Flying Free offers a Christ-centered, gospel-oriented perspective on domestic abuse that protects and honors the voices and autonomy of women. Tune in each week to hear conversations with emotional abuse advocates and fellow survivors who will walk with you on your journey up and out. We hear you. You are not alone. Learn more at https://flyingfreenow.com","last_synced_at":"2026-07-22T08:20:04.356126+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/flying-free-1045377"},"episode":{"title":"The Christian Abuser's Favorite Emotional Abuse Weapon (And How to Neutralize It!) - Emotional Abuse 101 | Part 6 [361]","slug":"the-christian-abuser-s-favorite-emotional-abuse-weapon-and-how-to-neutralize-it-emotional-abuse-101-part-6-361","published_at":"2026-01-06T18:30:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/flying-free-1045377/the-christian-abuser-s-favorite-emotional-abuse-weapon-and-how-to-neutralize-it-emotional-abuse-101-part-6-361","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/flying-free-1045377","url":"https://flyingfreenow.com/361","audio_url":"https://2.gum.fm/op3.dev/e/pdcn.co/e/pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/77bd7288/2c995c51.mp3","summary":"What is the weapon Christian abusers most commonly use? In this sixth installment of the Emotional Abuse 101 series, Natalie Hoffman talks about a subtle weapon many Christian men wield in emotionally abusive relationships: criticism . But not the obvious, name-calling type. This is the more insidious, underhanded kind that’s drenched in misogyny and spiritual distortion. If you've ever wondered why your husband criticizes you, even while appearing like a “good Christian man,” this episode will show you the truth behind the curtain. And it will help you take your power back. 🔑 Key Takeaways: Criticism is not always loud : Subtle criticism such as eye rolls, dismissive sighs, mansplaining, and “just joking” jabs can be more damaging than overt name-calling. This weapon is cultural and spiritual : Christian men are often raised to believe that anything “feminine” is weak, emotional, and inferior. This deep-rooted belief forms the foundation of their contempt. The misogyny is systemic : From Sunday school to locker rooms, boys are programmed to equate masculinity with power and femininity with weakness. The wife becomes the target : Once married, that learned disdain manifests as chronic correction, condescension, and disregard. You are not responsible for fixing him : Understanding the root of his behavior doesn’t mean justifying it. You have a right to healing, boundaries, and truth. 📒 Take a free Emotional Abuse Assessment by going to emotionalabusequiz.com I will also send you my weekly Freedom Notes Newsletter for Christian women in emotionally and spiritually abusive marriages. 📌 Relevant Links and Resources: 🎙️ Watch the rest of this Emotional Abuse 101 series (as it comes out) HERE . 💡 Join the Flying Free Kaleidoscope community — Get the education and support you…","meta_description":"What is the weapon Christian abusers most commonly use? 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