{"podcast":{"title":"FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity or Betrayal","slug":"flaunt-create-a-life-you-love-after-infidelity-or-betrayal-942354","podcast_index_feed_id":942354,"rss_url":"https://feed.podbean.com/loracheadle/feed.xml","website_url":"https://loracheadle.podbean.com","image_url":"https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/4760751/PodcastUpdatedAgainImage.jpg","author":"Lora Cheadle","episode_count":376,"summary":"Infidelity changes everything. Not just your relationship—but your sense of safety, identity, confidence, and trust in yourself. But it does not have to define you. FLAUNT! is for women navigating the heartbreak, confusion, and emotional chaos of betrayal. Whether you are reeling from the initial shock, obsessing over what happened, trying to decide whether to stay or leave, or simply wondering if you will ever feel like yourself again, this podcast will help you find clarity, steadiness, and hope. Hosted by betrayal recovery expert, attorney, and author Lora Cheadle, this podcast goes beyond traditional affair recovery advice to explore a more holistic approach to betrayal recovery—integrating emotional healing, nervous system regulation, legal clarity, spiritual insight, identity reconstruction, and self-trust. Through personal stories, expert interviews, nervous system tools, legal insights, relationship guidance, and soulful conversations, you’ll learn how to heal after infidelity, betrayal trauma, cheating, and emotional affairs; stop the spiral of obsessive thoughts; rebuild self-trust; and create a life that feels safe, true, and fully your own. FLAUNT! is about going from…","last_synced_at":"2026-06-09T02:19:20.614035+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/flaunt-create-a-life-you-love-after-infidelity-or-betrayal-942354"},"episode":{"title":"Why Understanding Your Attachment Style Isn’t Enough After Infidelity","slug":"why-understanding-your-attachment-style-isn-t-enough-after-infidelity","published_at":"2026-01-25T16:37:48+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/flaunt-create-a-life-you-love-after-infidelity-or-betrayal-942354/why-understanding-your-attachment-style-isn-t-enough-after-infidelity","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/flaunt-create-a-life-you-love-after-infidelity-or-betrayal-942354","url":"https://loracheadle.podbean.com/e/why-understanding-your-attachment-style-isn-t-enough-after-infidelity/","audio_url":"https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/cuqhmq83fkjwamc6/Bryan_Power_Final82g93.mp3","summary":"Attachment theory is everywhere right now — anxious, avoidant, fearful, secure — but after infidelity, simply understanding your attachment style doesn’t stop the emotional whiplash. In this powerful episode, Lora Cheadle is joined by Bryan Power, a Certified Integrated Attachment Theory Coach, for an honest, grounded conversation about how attachment wounds actually show up after betrayal — and what it really takes to heal them. Together, they break down the four attachment styles, explore why betrayal hits attachment at its core, and walk through the six pillars of Integrated Attachment Theory — practical tools that move you from survival and confusion into clarity, safety, and secure connection. This episode goes beyond theory. You’ll learn why insight alone doesn’t regulate the nervous system, how subconscious wounds drive behavior, and what helps betrayed partners stop feeling “crazy” when triggers hit — without excusing betrayal or bypassing accountability. If you’ve ever thought, “I know what’s happening — so why does it still hurt this much?” — this episode is for you. Top 3 Takeaways Knowing your attachment style doesn’t equal healingYou can name your pattern perfectly and still panic when your partner withdraws. Healing happens through felt safety, not logic alone. Betrayal exposes unhealed attachment wounds — in both partnersInfidelity doesn’t come from nowhere. It often reveals deep subconscious beliefs around safety, abandonment, worth, and betrayal that were never healed. Secure attachment is built — not bornThrough the six pillars of Integrated Attachment Theory — core wounds, needs, emotions, boundaries, communication, and behavior — couples can move toward safety, clarity, and conscious connection. 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