{"podcast":{"title":"FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity or Betrayal","slug":"flaunt-create-a-life-you-love-after-infidelity-or-betrayal-942354","podcast_index_feed_id":942354,"rss_url":"https://feed.podbean.com/loracheadle/feed.xml","website_url":"https://loracheadle.podbean.com","image_url":"https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/4760751/PodcastUpdatedAgainImage.jpg","author":"Lora Cheadle","episode_count":376,"summary":"Infidelity changes everything. Not just your relationship—but your sense of safety, identity, confidence, and trust in yourself. But it does not have to define you. FLAUNT! is for women navigating the heartbreak, confusion, and emotional chaos of betrayal. Whether you are reeling from the initial shock, obsessing over what happened, trying to decide whether to stay or leave, or simply wondering if you will ever feel like yourself again, this podcast will help you find clarity, steadiness, and hope. Hosted by betrayal recovery expert, attorney, and author Lora Cheadle, this podcast goes beyond traditional affair recovery advice to explore a more holistic approach to betrayal recovery—integrating emotional healing, nervous system regulation, legal clarity, spiritual insight, identity reconstruction, and self-trust. Through personal stories, expert interviews, nervous system tools, legal insights, relationship guidance, and soulful conversations, you’ll learn how to heal after infidelity, betrayal trauma, cheating, and emotional affairs; stop the spiral of obsessive thoughts; rebuild self-trust; and create a life that feels safe, true, and fully your own. FLAUNT! is about going from…","last_synced_at":"2026-06-09T02:19:20.614035+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/flaunt-create-a-life-you-love-after-infidelity-or-betrayal-942354"},"episode":{"title":"Why Men Cheat, Why They Keep Cheating, and How to Know If He’s Really Changed","slug":"why-men-cheat-why-they-keep-cheating-and-how-to-know-if-he-s-really-changed","published_at":"2026-03-15T18:24:46+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/flaunt-create-a-life-you-love-after-infidelity-or-betrayal-942354/why-men-cheat-why-they-keep-cheating-and-how-to-know-if-he-s-really-changed","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/flaunt-create-a-life-you-love-after-infidelity-or-betrayal-942354","url":"https://loracheadle.podbean.com/e/why-men-cheat-why-they-keep-cheating-and-how-to-know-if-he-s-really-changed/","audio_url":"https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/7t77w6yfksqvhcwf/Lora_Shawn_Show7rybm.mp3","summary":"Why do men cheat? Why do they keep cheating? Can a man love you and still betray you? Why won’t he talk about the affair? And how do you know if he’s truly changed? In this deeply honest episode, I sit down with my husband, Shawn, to answer the real questions women ask after infidelity—the same questions they post in my Facebook group, whisper to themselves at 2 a.m., and type into Google when their world has fallen apart. This conversation is raw, thoughtful, and incredibly real. Shawn shares openly from the perspective of the betrayer—not as a clinician, but as a man who lived it, hid it, justified it, and ultimately had to face the truth of what he had done. Together, we talk about validation, compartmentalization, shame, emotional avoidance, repair, trust, intrusive thoughts, and what genuine transformation actually looks like over time. This is not a conversation about excusing betrayal. It’s a conversation about understanding it clearly enough to stop repeating the cycle. If you have ever wondered whether he truly understands the pain he caused… whether change is real… or whether healing is possible for you, this episode will meet you there. Top 3 Takeaways Cheating is often a coping mechanism—not an honest solution.Shawn shares how seeking validation, emotional immaturity, and unresolved childhood wounds fueled his choices. This doesn’t excuse betrayal, but it does explain why many people cheat instead of leaving or speaking the truth. Real repair requires far more than saying “I’m sorry.”Healing only began when the conversation stopped being about words and started being about transformation, accountability, emotional safety, and the ability to stay present with discomfort. Trust is not rebuilt through promises. It’s rebuilt through patterns.This episode breaks…","meta_description":"Why do men cheat? Why do they keep cheating? Can a man love you and still betray you? Why won’t he talk about the affair? 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