{"podcast":{"title":"FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity or Betrayal","slug":"flaunt-create-a-life-you-love-after-infidelity-or-betrayal-942354","podcast_index_feed_id":942354,"rss_url":"https://feed.podbean.com/loracheadle/feed.xml","website_url":"https://loracheadle.podbean.com","image_url":"https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/4760751/PodcastUpdatedAgainImage.jpg","author":"Lora Cheadle","episode_count":376,"summary":"Infidelity changes everything. Not just your relationship—but your sense of safety, identity, confidence, and trust in yourself. But it does not have to define you. FLAUNT! is for women navigating the heartbreak, confusion, and emotional chaos of betrayal. Whether you are reeling from the initial shock, obsessing over what happened, trying to decide whether to stay or leave, or simply wondering if you will ever feel like yourself again, this podcast will help you find clarity, steadiness, and hope. Hosted by betrayal recovery expert, attorney, and author Lora Cheadle, this podcast goes beyond traditional affair recovery advice to explore a more holistic approach to betrayal recovery—integrating emotional healing, nervous system regulation, legal clarity, spiritual insight, identity reconstruction, and self-trust. Through personal stories, expert interviews, nervous system tools, legal insights, relationship guidance, and soulful conversations, you’ll learn how to heal after infidelity, betrayal trauma, cheating, and emotional affairs; stop the spiral of obsessive thoughts; rebuild self-trust; and create a life that feels safe, true, and fully your own. FLAUNT! is about going from…","last_synced_at":"2026-06-09T02:19:20.614035+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/flaunt-create-a-life-you-love-after-infidelity-or-betrayal-942354"},"episode":{"title":"Why He Can’t Stop: The Truth About Porn Addiction, Cheating & Compulsive Behavior in Relationships","slug":"why-he-can-t-stop-the-truth-about-porn-addiction-cheating-compulsive-behavior-in-relationships","published_at":"2026-04-05T15:51:22+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/flaunt-create-a-life-you-love-after-infidelity-or-betrayal-942354/why-he-can-t-stop-the-truth-about-porn-addiction-cheating-compulsive-behavior-in-relationships","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/flaunt-create-a-life-you-love-after-infidelity-or-betrayal-942354","url":"https://loracheadle.podbean.com/e/why-he-can-t-stop-the-truth-about-porn-addiction-cheating-compulsive-behavior-in-relationships/","audio_url":"https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/snxb8sqzz2mnaw8t/Jeremy_Lipkowitz_Finalbfak7.mp3","summary":"Why He Can’t Stop: The Truth About Porn Addiction, Cheating & Compulsive Behavior in Relationships You keep asking the same question:Why does he keep doing this—even when he knows it hurts me? In this eye-opening episode, Lora sits down with former Buddhist monk and addiction expert Jeremy Lipkowitz to unpack the real reasons behind compulsive behaviors like porn use, cheating, and addiction. This conversation goes far beyond surface-level answers. Together, they explore how addictive behaviors form, why they aren’t about you, and what true recovery actually requires. If you’ve ever felt confused, hurt, or stuck trying to understand your partner’s behavior—this episode will bring clarity, validation, and a new way forward. Top 3 Takeaways It’s not about you—it’s a coping mechanism.Most addictive behaviors begin early and are rooted in emotional regulation, not love, attraction, or relationship satisfaction. Addiction is about pain, not pleasure.The real question isn’t “Why the addiction?”—it’s “What pain is being avoided?” Healing requires addressing the root, not just stopping the behavior. You can’t shame someone into change—but you can create awareness.True transformation happens through self-awareness, accountability, and building a life that no longer needs escape. Pull Quotes \"Addiction isn’t about wanting more pleasure—it’s about trying to escape a life that doesn’t feel good.” Hashtags #PornAddictionRecovery #InfidelityHealing #WhyMenCheat #BetrayalRecovery #RelationshipTrauma #AddictionRecovery #EmotionalHealing #TraumaBond #CompulsiveBehavior #RelationshipAdvice #HealingAfterInfidelity #SelfTrust #MindfulnessHealing About Monique Dr. Monique Thompson, DHA, LPC, LPC-S, is an EMDR-trained trauma and infidelity recovery therapist based in Dallas with over 24…","meta_description":"Why He Can’t Stop: The Truth About Porn Addiction, Cheating & Compulsive Behavior in Relationships You keep asking the same question:Why does he keep…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":3203,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/flaunt-create-a-life-you-love-after-infidelity-or-betrayal-942354/episodes/why-he-can-t-stop-the-truth-about-porn-addiction-cheating-compulsive-behavior-in-relationships/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/flaunt-create-a-life-you-love-after-infidelity-or-betrayal-942354/why-he-can-t-stop-the-truth-about-porn-addiction-cheating-compulsive-behavior-in-relationships.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}