{"podcast":{"title":"FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity or Betrayal","slug":"flaunt-create-a-life-you-love-after-infidelity-or-betrayal-942354","podcast_index_feed_id":942354,"rss_url":"https://feed.podbean.com/loracheadle/feed.xml","website_url":"https://loracheadle.podbean.com","image_url":"https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/4760751/PodcastUpdatedAgainImage.jpg","author":"Lora Cheadle","episode_count":376,"summary":"Infidelity changes everything. Not just your relationship—but your sense of safety, identity, confidence, and trust in yourself. But it does not have to define you. FLAUNT! is for women navigating the heartbreak, confusion, and emotional chaos of betrayal. Whether you are reeling from the initial shock, obsessing over what happened, trying to decide whether to stay or leave, or simply wondering if you will ever feel like yourself again, this podcast will help you find clarity, steadiness, and hope. Hosted by betrayal recovery expert, attorney, and author Lora Cheadle, this podcast goes beyond traditional affair recovery advice to explore a more holistic approach to betrayal recovery—integrating emotional healing, nervous system regulation, legal clarity, spiritual insight, identity reconstruction, and self-trust. Through personal stories, expert interviews, nervous system tools, legal insights, relationship guidance, and soulful conversations, you’ll learn how to heal after infidelity, betrayal trauma, cheating, and emotional affairs; stop the spiral of obsessive thoughts; rebuild self-trust; and create a life that feels safe, true, and fully your own. FLAUNT! is about going from…","last_synced_at":"2026-06-09T02:19:20.614035+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/flaunt-create-a-life-you-love-after-infidelity-or-betrayal-942354"},"episode":{"title":"Longing After Betrayal: Grieving the Future You Thought You’d Have","slug":"longing-after-betrayal-grieving-the-future-you-thought-you-d-have","published_at":"2025-12-28T18:06:21+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/flaunt-create-a-life-you-love-after-infidelity-or-betrayal-942354/longing-after-betrayal-grieving-the-future-you-thought-you-d-have","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/flaunt-create-a-life-you-love-after-infidelity-or-betrayal-942354","url":"https://loracheadle.podbean.com/e/longing-after-betrayal-grieving-the-future-you-thought-you-d-have/","audio_url":"https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/9dvx88swabmc49xx/Longing_showbgmcq.mp3","summary":"Longing After Betrayal: Grieving the Future You Thought You’d Have There’s a very specific ache that shows up after betrayal—especially during the holidays. It’s not just missing a person. It’s grieving the future you thought you were building…and the version of you who once believed in it. In this episode, we talk about longing—not as a problem to fix, but as a signal of healing, a doorway back to self-trust, and a gentle bridge into what’s next. Longing after betrayal can feel confusing and even scary—because wanting, hoping, and believing once led to pain. But longing isn’t weakness, and it doesn’t mean you’re stuck or that you “made a mistake.” In this episode, Lora Cheadle explores why the holidays amplify longing (hello, Hallmark movies), why longing is often grief and love intertwined, and how longing can become a powerful compass back to self-trust. You’ll learn how to honor the future you lost without rushing into a new one, and you’ll be guided through a presencing practice and intentional silence to help regulate your nervous system and listen inward. Plus, Lora invites you into her $26 Vision Board Workshop on January 10—a gentle, guided container to help you reconnect with what still matters and shape what comes next without pressure. Top 3 Takeaways 1. Longing doesn’t mean you want your old life back—it means something meaningful mattered. You’re not “doing it wrong” if you ache; you’re human, and you’re grieving a future you imagined. 2. After betrayal, many women don’t stop trusting others—they stop trusting themselves to want again. Avoiding longing isn’t failure; it’s protection that hasn’t been updated yet. 3 Longing can become a compass when you stop trying to resolve it. 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