{"podcast":{"title":"First Principles","slug":"first-principles-7708985","podcast_index_feed_id":7708985,"rss_url":"https://feeds.megaphone.fm/PODAGEN4765221373","website_url":null,"image_url":"https://megaphone.imgix.net/podcasts/06eebd2a-0779-11f1-826e-37926ac18342/image/fca7c8febd1441fc3b0d54084418b06d.png?ixlib=rails-4.3.1&max-w=3000&max-h=3000&fit=crop&auto=format,compress","author":"Adrian Wells","episode_count":426,"summary":"First Principles isn't another business podcast recycling the same startup stories. Adrian Wells takes the fundamentals that actually matter and breaks them down like you're having coffee with the smartest professor you ever had. Wells spent twelve years teaching philosophy and critical thinking before ditching the lecture hall for the microphone. Turns out, the same principles that help you think clearly about ancient Greek ethics also work pretty well for modern business decisions. Who knew? Every episode strips away the latest trends and buzzwords to focus on the core ideas that don't change. How to actually evaluate evidence when everyone's throwing around statistics. Why most \"revolutionary\" business advice is just old wine in new bottles. The thinking patterns that separate smart decisions from lucky guesses. You won't get hyped-up success stories or flavor-of-the-month strategies. Instead, you'll learn how to think through problems the way philosophers have for centuries, applied to the stuff that matters in your work and life right now. Multiple new episodes drop daily, so there's always something fresh when you need it. Follow now if you're ready to think better, not just…","last_synced_at":"2026-09-20T02:18:54.580675+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/first-principles-7708985"},"episode":{"title":"Rochelle Humes: Why Being Abandoned at 6 Taught Her to Stop Fighting Uncertainty","slug":"rochelle-humes-why-being-abandoned-at-6-taught-her-to-stop-fighting-uncertainty","published_at":"2026-07-27T10:27:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/first-principles-7708985/rochelle-humes-why-being-abandoned-at-6-taught-her-to-stop-fighting-uncertainty","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/first-principles-7708985","url":"https://traffic.megaphone.fm/PODAGEN5331349009.mp3?updated=1776257550","audio_url":"https://traffic.megaphone.fm/PODAGEN5331349009.mp3?updated=1776257550","summary":"What if the worst thing that ever happened to you was actually the key to your greatest strength? When Rochelle Humes was abandoned by her father at 6, she spent decades demanding certainty from an uncertain world. In this episode, Adrian Wells explores how her journey from trauma to peace reveals something counterintuitive about healing. 🎯 What You'll Learn: • Why 70% of people with abandonment trauma become hypervigilant in relationships (and how to break the cycle) • The acceptance-based coping strategy that research shows reduces psychological distress by 40% • How celebrity children face 3x higher rates of psychological issues, and what Rochelle learned about handling public scrutiny 👤 Perfect for: lifelong learners and anyone passionate about personal growth who's ever tried to control outcomes that were never theirs to control. 📍 Chapters: [00:00] Adrian Wells introduces why certainty addiction keeps us stuck [01:30] Rochelle's abandonment at 6 and the questions that haunted her [04:00] The hypervigilance trap: when protection becomes prison [07:00] The moment she stopped demanding answers from the universe [10:00] How acceptance became her superpower in relationships [12:00] Three practical ways to make peace with uncertainty today The research is pretty clear: children with absent fathers face higher rates of anxiety and attachment issues. But here's what most studies miss. Some people don't just survive this trauma, they transform it into wisdom. Rochelle's story shows how. Her path from demanding certainty to embracing uncertainty isn't just inspiring. It's a masterclass in how our biggest wounds can become our greatest teachers, if we're willing to stop fighting what we can't control. 🔔 Never miss an episode: Follow First Principles on Spotify or Apple Podc…","meta_description":"What if the worst thing that ever happened to you was actually the key to your greatest strength? 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