{"podcast":{"title":"Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast","slug":"finding-mr-height-the-podcast-3584663","podcast_index_feed_id":3584663,"rss_url":"https://feeds.redcircle.com/a358dd62-56fe-49b1-8b63-b71555a5932b","website_url":"https://redcircle.com/shows/finding-mr-height-the-podcast","image_url":"https://media.redcircle.com/images/2025/5/12/16/4ee396ec-7358-4a21-be29-afcdbd727969_7ed1dcee1_12833571-1621211594237-26cf17c72cdc9.jpg","author":"Ali Jackson","episode_count":289,"summary":"On Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast, dating & relationship coach Ali Jackson (@findingmrheight) brings you her positive and practical approach built from personal experience in the dating trenches. No matter where you are in your relationship journey, you’ll learn how to identify your needs, embrace your feelings, and directly communicate both. Ready to feel more authentic and grounded in your relationships and more joyful in your life overall? Tune in as Ali brings you relatable conversations with both expert guests and listeners just like you, peppering in her own personal insights along the way. Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or any major podcast network. Find even more content from Ali on her Patreon, (https://www.patreon.com/findingmrheight) Instagram: @findingmrheight (https:// www.instagram.com/findingmrheight) TikTok: @findingmrheight (https://www.tiktok.com/ @findingmrheight)","last_synced_at":"2026-07-27T12:18:36.572160+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/finding-mr-height-the-podcast-3584663"},"episode":{"title":"283. Moving In Together, Part 2: The Emotional Side of Sharing a Home","slug":"283-moving-in-together-part-2-the-emotional-side-of-sharing-a-home","published_at":"2026-07-20T06:00:14+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/finding-mr-height-the-podcast-3584663/283-moving-in-together-part-2-the-emotional-side-of-sharing-a-home","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/finding-mr-height-the-podcast-3584663","url":"https://findingmrheight.com/podcast","audio_url":"https://mgln.ai/e/137/s.gum.fm/s-622f6d1f9b96ac24488cce98/audio4.redcircle.com/episodes/7ab0f7ce-6a9d-48ef-b86b-ae3e4b98d9d8/stream.mp3","summary":"We're continuing the multi-part moving-in series inspired by listener questions. In part two, Ali gets into the stuff you can't put in a spreadsheet: sharing a space with another person, protecting alone time when you live together, merging two homes' worth of stuff, and picking your battles (except of course when it comes to toilet paper direction). She reflects on what nine months of living with her partner actually taught her, why needing solo time is maintenance for a relationship rather than a rejection of it, and how two people can look at the same room and honestly not see the same mess. And if you want an even deeper dive, this week's AMA on the Patreon answers a listener whose partner pushed back on having the pre-move \"ground rules\" conversation, and the cohabitation bonus storytimes are up there too, at Patreon.com/findingmrheight . This week there are two Media Mentions: HuffPost's \"Why Some Happy Couples Choose To Sleep In Separate Bedrooms\" by Kelsey Borresen, on why protecting each person's space and sleep can protect the relationship, and Psychology Today's \"When Partners Have Different Levels of Cleanliness\" by Marisa T. Cohen, PhD, on why clashing standards of clean are two different thresholds, not a character flaw. Ask questions, make a Storytime submission, or give feedback here: https://tinyurl.com/fmhpodqs If you'd like to hear Ali’s personal updates before everyone else as well as exclusive episodes every week, ad-free listening, monthly lives, and more…join FMH on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . Thanks to this week’s partners: Bilt Rewards: Take advantage of your Neighborhood Benefits™ by going to joinbilt.com/fmh Losers Part 1 & 2: Check out Kensington Publishing: https://www.kensingtonbooks.com Our Sponsors: * Check out Kensing…","meta_description":"We're continuing the multi-part moving-in series inspired by listener questions. In part two, Ali gets into the stuff you can't put in a spreadsheet: shar…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2467,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/finding-mr-height-the-podcast-3584663/episodes/283-moving-in-together-part-2-the-emotional-side-of-sharing-a-home/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/finding-mr-height-the-podcast-3584663/283-moving-in-together-part-2-the-emotional-side-of-sharing-a-home.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}