{"podcast":{"title":"Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast","slug":"finding-mr-height-the-podcast-3584663","podcast_index_feed_id":3584663,"rss_url":"https://feeds.redcircle.com/a358dd62-56fe-49b1-8b63-b71555a5932b","website_url":"https://redcircle.com/shows/finding-mr-height-the-podcast","image_url":"https://media.redcircle.com/images/2025/5/12/16/4ee396ec-7358-4a21-be29-afcdbd727969_7ed1dcee1_12833571-1621211594237-26cf17c72cdc9.jpg","author":"Ali Jackson","episode_count":283,"summary":"On Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast, dating & relationship coach Ali Jackson (@findingmrheight) brings you her positive and practical approach built from personal experience in the dating trenches. No matter where you are in your relationship journey, you’ll learn how to identify your needs, embrace your feelings, and directly communicate both. Ready to feel more authentic and grounded in your relationships and more joyful in your life overall? Tune in as Ali brings you relatable conversations with both expert guests and listeners just like you, peppering in her own personal insights along the way. Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or any major podcast network. Find even more content from Ali on her Patreon, (https://www.patreon.com/findingmrheight) Instagram: @findingmrheight (https:// www.instagram.com/findingmrheight) TikTok: @findingmrheight (https://www.tiktok.com/ @findingmrheight)","last_synced_at":"2026-06-15T14:18:51.834791+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/finding-mr-height-the-podcast-3584663"},"episode":{"title":"270. The Relationship Advice You Inherited Might Be Wrong ft. Monica Tanner","slug":"270-the-relationship-advice-you-inherited-might-be-wrong-ft-monica-tanner","published_at":"2026-04-20T06:00:50+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/finding-mr-height-the-podcast-3584663/270-the-relationship-advice-you-inherited-might-be-wrong-ft-monica-tanner","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/finding-mr-height-the-podcast-3584663","url":"https://findingmrheight.com/podcast","audio_url":"https://mgln.ai/e/137/s.gum.fm/s-622f6d1f9b96ac24488cce98/audio4.redcircle.com/episodes/883d1b72-447a-404c-a587-ff66aadb0924/stream.mp3","summary":"Marriage coach Monica Tanner joins Ali to challenge the unwritten rulebook most of us absorbed about relationships without ever questioning it. Monica, the author of Bad Marriage Advice , breaks down why a lot of the advice well-meaning people pass down is not just unhelpful but actively working against us. The conversation covers why \"never go to bed angry\" is a recipe for sleep deprivation, what it actually means to teach your partner how to treat you, and why compromise is not always the goal. Ali also shares her own examples from her relationship with Skyline. In Updates, Ali reflects on her ongoing curly hair journey and an unexpected emotional realization it triggered, shares a story about a college situationship she had completely forgotten about, and celebrates two years with Skyline, including a special anniversary dinner. This week's Media Mention is \"4 Styles of Cleaners\" by Amanda Dodson (@nestingyourlife on TikTok), a framework for understanding where you and your partner fall on the tidy/cluttered and sanitized/natural spectrums, and why it matters more than you think for cohabitation. Where to find Monica: On Instagram @monitalksmarriage and at www.monicatanner.com . Grab Monica's book \"Bad Marriage Advice: ​Debunking Myths That Will Make You Miserable and What To Do Instead\" here: https://www.badmarriageadvice.com/get-the-book Timestamps: Monica joins us at around minute 29. Ask questions, make a Storytime submission, or give feedback here: https://tinyurl.com/fmhpodqs If you'd like to hear Ali’s personal updates before everyone else, as well as exclusive episodes every week, ad-free listening, monthly lives, and more, join FMH on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . Thanks to this week’s partners: Bilt Rewards: Take advantage of your Neighborhood…","meta_description":"Marriage coach Monica Tanner joins Ali to challenge the unwritten rulebook most of us absorbed about relationships without ever questioning it. Monica, th…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":4403,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/finding-mr-height-the-podcast-3584663/episodes/270-the-relationship-advice-you-inherited-might-be-wrong-ft-monica-tanner/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/finding-mr-height-the-podcast-3584663/270-the-relationship-advice-you-inherited-might-be-wrong-ft-monica-tanner.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}