{"podcast":{"title":"Find Love With Emily","slug":"find-love-with-emily-6356718","podcast_index_feed_id":6356718,"rss_url":"https://podcasts.helloaudio.fm/podcast/aea07526-53af-41b4-a5eb-bfa72ffea315/ZaEgGzXxrE","website_url":"https://www.findlovewithemily.com","image_url":"https://d32kcwy5dai345.cloudfront.net/e6568873-cedb-411e-ab82-0c113570571a.jpg","author":"Emily","episode_count":74,"summary":"Welcome to Find Love With Emily, the podcast for successful, single women in their 30s and 40s, exhausted by dating and wondering why love’s so hard to find. If you’ve tried all the dating advice; trying harder, swiping more, fixing yourself or “not looking”, and it still hasn’t worked, this podcast explains why. Each episode breaks down how love really happens, the one rule it always follows and why dating has left you scared that maybe love is not meant for you. This is the end of ridiculous dating games, trying to be the woman men want and hoping your luck changes. Here, dating finally makes sense and real, lasting love becomes possible again. Subscribe to Find Love With Emily for weekly episodes that cut through the usual dating BS and get to the root of what makes love inevitable.","last_synced_at":"2026-09-13T06:18:28.746191+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/find-love-with-emily-6356718"},"episode":{"title":"Why It's Always A Fight For Love & Attention","slug":"why-it-s-always-a-fight-for-love-attention","published_at":"2026-09-08T19:55:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/find-love-with-emily-6356718/why-it-s-always-a-fight-for-love-attention","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/find-love-with-emily-6356718","url":"https://podcasts.helloaudio.fm/download/ZaEgGzXxrE/00666aa6-ecf9-4a13-b135-d6572ab6e8b6.mp3","audio_url":"https://podcasts.helloaudio.fm/download/ZaEgGzXxrE/00666aa6-ecf9-4a13-b135-d6572ab6e8b6.mp3","summary":"Finding love can feel like one, exhausting long fight you never win. It can feel so unfair when you think about how much love you have to give. And that you're not asking for anything ridiculous, or what other people don't have. You just want a loving, committed relationship with a man who actually shows up for you. A relationship where you can just relax. But for some reason, who you are and what you do, it never seems to be enough. It feels like you're always having to try harder, put more effort in, rethink what you're doing to find love, unsure of what else you can possibly do to finally make love happen. But what if the answer was never to try harder or put more effort in?!?! What if it was doing the opposite?! Because there’s something much deeper that's kept you fighting for love and attention... and never actually getting it. And once you understand this, you'll see how coming at finding love in a way that actually feels better, might be all that you've need to do all along. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why finding love can feel so much harder for you than it seems to be for everyone else What’s actually driving the constant need to try harder when dating feels uncertain How the fight for love and attention keeps repeating itself in your dating life Why it feels near impossible to hard to relax and focus on your life What begins to change when you finally stop fighting and come back to love How to find love without the fight. If you’re exhausted from trying to make dating work and wondering why finding a loving relationship has been so damn hard, hit play and listen to the full episode now. 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man h…","meta_description":"Finding love can feel like one, exhausting long fight you never win. It can feel so unfair when you think about how much love you have to give. And that y…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":1272,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/find-love-with-emily-6356718/episodes/why-it-s-always-a-fight-for-love-attention/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/find-love-with-emily-6356718/why-it-s-always-a-fight-for-love-attention.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}