{"podcast":{"title":"Becoming Financially Confident","slug":"financially-confident-christian-773313","podcast_index_feed_id":773313,"rss_url":"https://feeds.captivate.fm/ask-ralph-podcast/","website_url":"http://www.becomingfinanciallyconfident.com/","image_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/c17cbaaa-ac0e-40c1-abbe-52b5e2557b3f/BFC-Podcast-Cover-Final-v2.jpg","author":"Ralph V. Estep, Jr.","episode_count":1257,"summary":"Breaking Free from Financial Shame, one conversation at a time. Most money advice assumes you already know what you're doing. This show doesn't. Becoming Financially Confident is a live weekday show for people who want to get their financial life in order without being lectured, judged, or sold something. Host Ralph Estep Jr. is a Licensed Public Accountant with more than 30 years of experience sitting across the desk from real people and real businesses — the shoebox of receipts, the tax notice nobody wants to open, the budget that never quite balances. He has made his own expensive mistakes, and he talks about them openly. This is not a new voice. Ralph has published more than 1,200 episodes across eight seasons, earned national recognition for his work, and written nearly a thousand articles on money, taxes, technology, and small business. Becoming Financially Confident is the next chapter of that same show, in the same feed — sharper, live, and built around one idea: you are capable of figuring this out. Every show opens with Headlines: what happened in the money world, and why it matters to your money and not just somebody's portfolio. From there, the recurring segments inclu…","last_synced_at":"2026-09-16T10:17:43.701925+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/financially-confident-christian-773313"},"episode":{"title":"Why Do I Still Feel the Urge to Spend Even When I’m Doing Well?","slug":"why-do-i-still-feel-the-urge-to-spend-even-when-i-m-doing-well","published_at":"2026-06-05T07:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/financially-confident-christian-773313/why-do-i-still-feel-the-urge-to-spend-even-when-i-m-doing-well","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/financially-confident-christian-773313","url":"https://www.financiallyconfidentchristian.com/urge-to-spend","audio_url":"https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/995798d3-7d0e-4e4a-bc58-c26d6758e514.mp3","summary":"Are you crushing it financially but still feeling that itch to spend? Well, today we’re diving into that very conundrum. I chatted with a listener in their 30s who's totally debt-free and raking in the dough, yet they can’t shake off the urge to splurge. So is this a budget fail or is money trying to whisper something deeper? Why Do I Still Feel the Urge to Spend Even When I’m Doing Well? We’re breaking it all down, exploring how to balance that spending urge without throwing all your hard-earned cash out the window. Stick around, because we’re all about finding that sweet spot between saving and enjoying life! Read today's blog article Check out the full podcast episode here Sometimes, even when we’ve got our financial act together, that itch to splurge just doesn’t go away. Today’s chat dives into this relatable dilemma. Our guest is a thirty-something who’s crushing it financially: debt-free, solid income, and investing for retirement. Sounds like the dream, right? But here’s the kicker—they can’t shake this urge to spend money. So, is this a budgeting conundrum or something deeper? We dig into the psychology behind spending urges and explore how they might reveal more about our emotional state than our financial habits. The conversation takes a turn from mere numbers and spreadsheets to the heart of what spending represents in our lives. Is it boredom? A need for excitement? Or maybe just a way to feel a sense of progress? We challenge the notion that the solution is stricter budgeting and instead suggest that understanding the underlying feelings could be the key. It’s all about finding that balance between enjoying life now and saving for the future. Ultimately, we encourage our listeners to embrace intentional enjoyment in their budgeting. By planning a little f…","meta_description":"Are you crushing it financially but still feeling that itch to spend? Well, today we’re diving into that very conundrum. 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