{"podcast":{"title":"Financially Confident Christian","slug":"financially-confident-christian-773313","podcast_index_feed_id":773313,"rss_url":"https://feeds.captivate.fm/ask-ralph-podcast/","website_url":"http://www.financiallyconfidentchristian.com/","image_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/e16ef329-a787-4332-afdd-dfdc37445d5f/fcccompressed1.jpg","author":"Ralph V. Estep, Jr.","episode_count":1160,"summary":"2025 Best Christian Finance Podcast in the U.S. — Best of Best Review I believe money isn’t just about numbers — it’s about confidence, stewardship, and faith. If you’ve ever felt trapped in the cycle of financial shame, I want you to know — you’re not alone, and you don’t have to stay there. I’m Ralph Estep Jr., and on Financially Confident Christian, I help you blend Biblical wisdom with practical financial strategies so you can finally find peace with your money and purpose in your plans. Every day, you’ll get real-world steps you can take right now — no confusing jargon, no judgment — just daily encouragement, proven principles, and faith-driven clarity to help you break free, build confidence, and honor God with your resources. Whether you’re paying off debt, learning to budget with purpose, or dreaming of financial freedom, this show is your daily companion for faith-based financial growth. Your story isn’t defined by your past mistakes. It’s shaped by your next faithful step. So hit follow, and let’s walk this journey together — one decision, one prayer, one day at a time.","last_synced_at":"2026-06-14T06:20:30.924001+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/financially-confident-christian-773313"},"episode":{"title":"How Do I Stop Being the Financial Safety Net for My Loved Ones?","slug":"how-do-i-stop-being-the-financial-safety-net-for-my-loved-ones","published_at":"2026-04-23T07:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/financially-confident-christian-773313/how-do-i-stop-being-the-financial-safety-net-for-my-loved-ones","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/financially-confident-christian-773313","url":"https://financiallyconfidentchristian.com/financial-safety-net","audio_url":"https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/9b4081db-3229-4a65-91c2-ce564289439d.mp3","summary":"Learn how to distinguish between helping a loved one in crisis and enabling a chronic pattern of financial irresponsibility. 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