{"podcast":{"title":"Feminist Wellness","slug":"feminist-wellness-15519","podcast_index_feed_id":15519,"rss_url":"https://feeds.captivate.fm/feminist-wellness/","website_url":"https://beatrizalbina.com/podcast/","image_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/a7586ad9-3301-41e7-82b3-5666835690fe/-hV1YQpPtas-bb50LBxFAVDp.jpg","author":"Béa Victoria Albina","episode_count":444,"summary":"You weren't born anxious, depleted, and second-guessing yourself. You were taught to be. The Feminist Wellness podcast is where nervous system science meets the truth nobody wants to say out loud: most of what you think is \"self-care\" is just performing wellness while your body stays stuck in survival mode. Host Béa Victoria Albina - NP, life coach, and Somatic Experiencing Practitioner - breaks down the codependent, perfectionist, and people-pleasing habits that keep you trapped in what she calls Emotional Outsourcing™: constantly looking outside yourself for permission, validation, and proof that you're enough. This isn't another show about bubble baths and boundaries. It's about understanding why your body says yes when you mean no, why rest feels impossible, and how to stop treating your own needs like an inconvenience. If you're done white-knuckling your way through life, performing okayness while feeling like you're constantly failing some invisible test, this show will help you see what's actually happening - and what becomes possible when you stop abandoning yourself to please everyone else. New episodes weekly. Start anywhere.","last_synced_at":"2026-07-23T14:21:04.766597+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/feminist-wellness-15519"},"episode":{"title":"Ep #386: Wants and Needs: How to Know What Matters Most to You","slug":"ep-386-wants-and-needs-how-to-know-what-matters-most-to-you","published_at":"2026-07-09T05:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/feminist-wellness-15519/ep-386-wants-and-needs-how-to-know-what-matters-most-to-you","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/feminist-wellness-15519","url":"https://beatrizalbina.com/wants-needs-what-matters-to-you/","audio_url":"https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/5b2308a9-2999-4f26-b93f-400084cc905b.mp3","summary":"#386: Do you ever find yourself giving to others while quietly wondering if your own needs are being met? Are you unsure how to identify what you truly want versus what you think you should want? In this episode, I explore the often overlooked patterns that make it hard to distinguish your genuine wants and needs from the expectations of those around you. By the end of this episode, you’ll understand how to notice the difference between your authentic needs and habitual responses, reclaim your sense of agency, and start making choices that honor both your values and your well-being. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://beatrizalbina.com/386 Order your copy of End Emotional Outsourcing here: https://beatrizalbina.com/book/ Follow me here: https://www.instagram.com/beatrizvictoriaalbinanp/?hl=en Mentioned in this episode: Join Nervous System Signals and Safety! You understand your anxiety. You can name your triggers, trace them back, explain the whole thing. And your body still does what it does - the freeze, the brace, the exhaustion that has nothing to do with how much you slept. Working at the level where the pattern actually lives - your nervous system, your physiology - is what changes it. Signals & Safety is 12 weeks of somatic education and practice built from 20+ years of clinical training. You come out knowing why your body responds the way it does, and with the tools to meet yourself differently in the moments that used to undo you. Check it out here: https://feminist-wellness.captivate.fm/signalsandsafety Nervous System Signals and Safety","meta_description":"#386: Do you ever find yourself giving to others while quietly wondering if your own needs are being met? Are you unsure how to identify what you truly wa…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":1542,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/feminist-wellness-15519/episodes/ep-386-wants-and-needs-how-to-know-what-matters-most-to-you/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/feminist-wellness-15519/ep-386-wants-and-needs-how-to-know-what-matters-most-to-you.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}